Do you feel that you are useless, that no one cares for you? You're trying to seek some peer group to find your value. Or you demand value from your loved ones, your boyfriend or girlfriend. Feeling worthless.
Oftentimes we want to feel valuable or useful that people need us. But sometimes when you don't know your worth it can cause us to become discouraged and low self-esteem.
There are a lot of self-concepts that we know, like, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-confidence.
Self-worth is the most vital self-concept we have, it is defined as the "feeling that you are a good person who deserves to be treated with respect".It means that you are valuable enough.
How can we say that we are not worthy anymore?
Sometimes it's a kinda dramatic scene that we can say the word, Am I worthy?
When nobody listens to our opinion
Usually, it happens in the family, for example to a wife when the children always neglect her advice and don't listen to her, she feels that she is useless.
When somebody disrespect
Anybody deserves to be respected especially our parents it that way we can show them that they are worthy enough for us.
When we fail from our goals
Other people value themselves when they can achieve their goals, or being a successful person like a business, work, and other kinds of livelihood they engage. But by the time of failing once goals may lead to losing their worthiness because of having fear with the provision of the family.
When there is a failure in a relationship
A good relationship will help boost our self-worth, we feel being value by people that we loved. Once a person failed with marriage life it can cause to become desperate and the feeling of being useless.
When a person has an illness
This is a very crucial situation for a person, I have seen some people who are suffering a long period with stroke and other health conditions which make them feel depressed.
We may say sometimes this world is unfair, and say, why am I like this? But we need to accept the reality that this life on earth has a lot of ups and downs, pros and cons, hate and love. Where can we find our worth? How can we develop our self-worth?
Self-worth for ourselves should not be asked for with another person, or to somebody that we expect to give us importance. It begins with ourselves, to decide on ourselves that we are valuable enough.
I have been into depression and feeling useless before when I was being neglected when I applied for a job. A feeling of being inadequate, insecurity and got discouraged.
There's only one thing that I find my worth which I can say, fair and just and nobody can boost, in my creator, My God.
At some point in my life when I'm down and feeling low, in him I was revived and got my value of being a person that nobody could give to me.
No one can determine our value than ourselves. There is one thing that causes us to feel unworthy it's the LIES in our head that are injected by the negativity of our surroundings.
The people around have different opinions about us, there are a lot of voices we can hear. Lies were planted in the mind, through the person we talk to, or what we see every day through social media. That's why we should be careful with our everyday usage of our gadgets.
Choose your friend
True friends exist the one who cares and have a concern about your feelings and valued you truly even if you didn't ask for it, so if you have one you're blessed. A good companion will help you to be what you are and express yourself as who you are with no judgment and criticism. By this, you can strengthen your value.
Determine your strength and weaknesses
Everyone has its strength and weaknesses by determining it we can process ourself into a way of improving. And your weaknesses can be your strength. One of my weaknesses was being a shy person, and I was unable to interact with people before but now I learned from it and give rise to myself through my brothers and sisters in the church.
Self-worth is for everybody not just for the famous, for the honorable, for the highest, but for all of us who deserve to be respected. Oftentimes people disrespect or don't give value when they see the physical appearance was not good like the attire, or the clothes they wear become degraded or disrespected and bully.
All of us should start to give value to ourselves by giving value to other people. Be respectful to one another so that we will help developed everybody's self -worth. Gain your self-worth by giving it to others, value your friends, family, peers, everyone around you. By this, we can help each other to find and know his/her worth.
You are useful enough of who you are.
To all my co read.cash users.Hope you're having a good time.Value yourself people, you deserve it.
Be a blessing.
Thank you.