@Winx1988 10 November 2022 edited more from that month

Acceptance and love "*How nice is the feeling when there's a person who will accept us for who we are as a person, despite of our dark pasts, failed choices, and failure?"*

I was watching a video with a woman, she is a famous personality, but I will not state her name anymore. Maybe the others users might not recognized her. The story of her life was like a roller coaster, happy, but she's like wearing a mask of a joyous face behind shame. Showing the image of a nice woman, and seems to have a perfect life. But, despite of her beauty and booming carrier, she had been through the darkest point of her life. That was the time, when she have made a bad choices in the past, which became her greatest nightmare for more than 10 years of bearing it with herself. It's all about a video that has a bad content that destroys her dignity and credibility. It was revealed by the time, when she felt successful and soaring in her carrier. It was made by the man that he trusted before, her past relationship. If we think of it, what had happened was very devastating for a woman. It will make her to be little herself. And even she felt like disappearing in the world, through a suicide. Her alternative suicidal , is isolation in a four corners dark room. It's her way of condemning herself. She tried a lot of ways to keep moving on and overcome her negative thoughts. But, everything didn't worked. One time, she met a friend who was very open with her life too,as in everything, no shame. Then she was awakened, it opened her mind, that she was not the worst person in the whole world. She was thinking that she's not the only one, who is suffering, a lot of people have suffered more than what she's going through. The negative things that she experienced have become the greatest tool of her transformation as a person, all aspects of her well being. Back to her love life... Because of the malicious video, She thought that no guy will marry her, because her image become filthy, in the face of the social media, and in public. She was thinking that no one would love her, because of what she has done. She feel undeserved of true love, and nobody will love her sincerely. But life is full of twists and turns which we don't expect to come. There was a moment when we feel, we don't have other choice but to hide, then the unexpected rescue will come in disguise. There's a man who came into her life, who treated her like a princess. The one we can see on a movie or a fairytale, who kissed the hand of a lady, and asking permission to hold her. She was flattered, because her past relationships, in which physical touch is just too normal. Then, this guy came to her with gentleness, and care, which makes her feel so special. She was feeling undeserved with that kind of loved, that's why she cried in tears, while she realized, how did life surprised her. A restoring loved that she was amazed to have it, from a guy that she admired the most. Her relationship with this man was very authentic, and real. **The love and acceptance that she received was like a saving grace.** After all the pain and controversy, this man have raised up her dignity as a woman. The best part is, their first kiss happens in the altar within the wedding day. That's how they treasured it. My realizations **1.Our problem today is not the end of everything** That's what happened to her, during the time that she suffer, she thought of being hopeless, and nobody will love her anymore. But, she's definitely wrong, after that nightmare, comes out the best. We may not realized it at the moment and the process of healing will take a long time. **Always be cautious when entering into a relationship** Why do I say this? That woman was being abused by her partner, through exposing their private videos. Before we gave our commitment to a person, always be aware with what he or she really wants. And if the love was true or sincere. **3.Woman should always protect her rights** It's such a shame and degrading in the part of a woman, when her privacy was invaded. Our dignity should be consider, and keep our eyes open so that we can see the reality of what love is. A lot of women in the world have become a victim with this kind of abusive act, most of them are helpless and can't be able to fight against. We should not keep ourselves blinded when we knew that we are already in a trap. **4.Value yourself** There comes a time in my life, when I fell in love, that my world revolves around with a certain man. I forget myself. But, I realized that it's not supposed to happened in me. I should not forget that I have the responsibility to taking care of myself rather than forgetting it. Lastly, in reality there are a lot of people, family members who are having a hard time of coping up. And all we can do for them is to accept them, even if they fail, giving a second chances and release forgiveness. Maybe it was not that easy but as we take a step along that way, we can find peace that we longing for, within our hearts. Good day, love, love. Lead image source:https://unsplash.com/@giulia_bertelli