How do we defined loved?Love is an intense feeling of deep affection,your longing to be with someone whom your heart beats.Its a kind of feeling that inspires us,enable us to have courage each day.
Everyone wants to be loved or to be loved,its a kind of missing piece in our heart without love.But do we know if this love was true?Or does true love really exist?
True love is a gift from God for he is the source of love,unfortunately we are unable to love without him.Love is the most romantic kind of feeling that can ever be earn.Without love ,we have nothing.Love applied in all aspects of life.
In the workplace,a person without love of what he's doing is never been productive.
In the family,in the absence of love , a house is no longer called home.
But when talking about romantic love referring to someone special.How can we discern if it is true love?
True love is unconditional,it never sets perfection,even to the point of having failures ,its always there.As if,you were like this,or you should be like that.
It never sets expectations,most marriage breakup because of the unmet expectations.We always expect that our spouse will always doing better that's why we come to the point of disppointment.Expecting that he/she should always do the best that makes us happy.As being human nature there is always a failure.
True love is accepting every differences,every flaws that we have.For instance you can't accept the weakness of your spouse oftentimes both just pointing out mistakes resulting to arguing. Even if you don't have the same favorite color or favorite food.Try to balanced it to make things beautiful.
True love is not one-sided,or not selfish or to seek for self-satisfaction.It consider the feelings of the other person.
True love is stubborn,it persists,and persevere.Like a mother who still love his child even if he always break her heart but still used to love him.
True love is pure,no selfish motive.Loving someone just who he is.
To love is to share your life with the other person,to share your whole-being,your space,and your time.
To love is to give yourself without expecting in return,loving is giving .
True love last longer,ti'll the end of times it never fades away,even when hair is white,blurred eyes,love still shown.
True love spend time,that's why in our daily life we need to set time to talk to our spouse,to express that we care for them because time.is the expression of love.
True love is not rude,it does'nt act unbecomingly.Sometimes there is abuse inside the home,husband towards the wife and vise versa.Whether it is physical ,verbal abuse should never happened.
True love is self-commitment involve the to someone.you give your vows.
Love every moment was the most beautiful way to be with someone.Enjoy both company,never call it a boring time with your love .
Laugh everyday ,enjoy every companionship with your spouse should never be take for granted.
Live beyond words.It means that you have to show it,if you love someone let him feel of what he's worth for you.
With all of this things we should work things out not just in the lips but to put into action by making your love feel special when he is with you.Just like when someone say's,I care for you.
Therefore we need to consider if the love that we have is true,we have to refect for it,true love never changes but it goes stronger as the years goes by.
Daghang salamat!
God bless you.
Without True love life on earth is boring and cold!