A home that is governed by God is pleasing to the Lord. There is no perfect mediator in the family unless God is involved.
That is why it is very important to have a godly husband and wife. There is no perfect relationship at all but there is a perfect God who can give peace and a harmonious way of living through times that they shared. All of us have an ideal man and a woman but in addon to that, we can add a beautiful or handsome, or a desirable man or man and godly. A godly person is living according to God's perspective and principles despite being a sinful nature but he or she is willing to submit to the will of God.
In this way, we can build a strong family into a strong society and a good nation when the families of the world have one mediator but God our creator, there will no broken homes and abandoned children in our surrounding, there will be no need to divorce or annulment, there will be no single mother and father. Because at the feet of God we all bow down and submit to his purpose then he will be the one who leads our marriage life through times.
What are the qualities of a godly man/woman?
1.He/she Has an ongoing, Developing Relationship with Jesus
Looking for a man or woman that gets on to church isn’t simple, but locating one that’s actively dedicated to prospering spiritually is also significant. Does he/she aware of the words of God. Does the boost others at the congregation and in his private life? Does he /she acknowledge Jesus?
What you and your future husband do with Jesus and the Bible will form the mediator for your home. It will either be the bottom, out of which all decisions and preferences flow, or it will be an addition to your activity. The discrepancy between those two will guide your relationship, your childrearing, your pursuits, and your future.
Uprightness
He talks positively, does not mislead or falsify, and follows through with his vows. He can be been sure of on to be who he proclaims he is. He is not one guy at the endeavor and another at home. He doesn’t have humiliating mysteries or unethical manners.
Think of, honesty differs of obvious shameful acts. Sincerity doesn’t imply that he stays an unfiltered existence on Instagram; it implies that he carries God’s principle for virtue and purity wherever he goes. Private righteousness is the safety against immorality. Decent men are nice because they know the Lord, not because they are good men.
3. He /she is sympathetic
The efforts and statements are defined by compassion and modesty. Rather than focusing on self primarily, he/she is thoughtful of somebody's emotions, time, and abilities. He is ready to let people get on, talk, choose, and feel important.
Gentlemen are not forceful, they are comfortable sufficient to attend to others because they comprehend that superiority is an integrity of the heart’s situation. Real unpretentiousness implicates service, which is not the same as retaining nice attitudes at a reasonable period.
4. He is Thoughtful
A decent man and woman will deal with you as God perspectives you—a wonderful creation gave rise to for a religious objective, who’s so important that He brought Jesus to die for me and you.
A reasonable spouse doesn’t desire you to shift private limitations for him. He won’t oblige you or put up with a justification of you. A thoughtful man rates a woman enough to insure her heart.To love you as his own body and a man or a woman who will never let physical abuse against each other.This was a very sad occurrences of a marriage life that there are a abusesive wives and even a husband.We do not joined in marriage just to get hurt physically but to share love and affection.How bad it is that there are spouses who are abusive with each other.
5 . Accept your weaknesses
Acceptance is very valuable in a relationship, without pointing out your past mistakes and criticizing who you are. We do have differences in attitude, character, behavior, but God is in charge to become a Potter who can mold our life to become better people. Every one of us has our weaknesses especially with our emotions if your spouse accepts you as a whole he or she will still love you the way you are and not what you should be.
6.Marry a person that can be a prayer partner. A family that prays, stays stronger and that is a reality that is never been outdated. The godly couples that decline have one spouse that resists having a private meditation with God. Prayer establishes a deep relationship both in married life and with God.
7.There are a lot of godly couples who have known each other when a friend acquaints her friend to another and they are compatible (just like us). There are some friends who just want to play cupid who want you to meet their friends but ask yourself if they are reliable people only have good intentions.
8.Pray to God and ask for his blessing with your efforts to find a spouse and be ready to always listen to his guidance. Let God be the author of your romantic love stories for he knows better and the best things that suit you.
A good life is a life that is pleasing to the Lord, even if how much we have in our life, wealth, money, and a material bit if our marriage life is not peaceful and pleasing to God all will be in vain.
God desires us to live happily and peacefully, more than material things he wants us to live a good life with the one we love. God is the first author of a love story with Adan and Even and he is the unite that unites them into godly marriage life. Of course, there's no assurance that everything will be perfect, but as long as God is the center of every relationship there will be a blessing of every marriage life that no one can compare.
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