I always fail? I need to succeed. Do I experience success in my life?
And this time I'm gonna share with you this idea that gives enlightenment in my mind about success.
Success is relatively defined in every person, we should not judge a person that he fails in life just because of what he is now. A person can define himself as a successful person. For example,
When a man gets married to the woman whom he loved the most and finally they both faced the altar. Isn't this success? Yes, it is! When you have done the interview and accepted your job. Isn't this success? Yes of course. If a man has heard a big us with the girl she loved, it's also a success. When you can eat your favorite food through your hard work in a day. It is also a success.
It does not refer only to achieving higher degree, but success also referred to a relationship, a parent, a daughter, son, husband, and wife. Dont defined your success based on what you see in the public. If you have realized your goal and attain it you are done with success.
You are your only limit.
Each of us has the capacity to step up and do more things as we like it.
Success is not an accident or a lucky, chance, not magic like wishing in a genie.
Success is the accomplishment of an aim or purpose.
Success needs commitment.
Commitment
the state or quality of being dedicated to a cause, activity, etc.
Whatever happens or barriers that will come your way will be surpassed if you are committed to pursuing your goal.
Here are some pointers for us;
Embrace the fact that we have an expiration date
As we have seen, goods and maybe the majority kinds of foods have a so-called expiration date. Same as we are, we will expire sooner or later, we will pass this life. By accepting this fact of life, we will learn to become responsible and plan with our goals. There are unpredictable happening in our life each day, things that we didn't expect to happen in our life.
Give your very best effort today, to enjoy life and have peace in your journey. We are wise enough if we realized that we might end soon.
At the moment
Success moments deserved to get document every time. When you have proposed to your girlfriend when she said yes when you pass the exam. This not to brag but to reward yourself for achieving something.
Take responsibility for your life
We have the attitude to blame others for our present situation, like blaming myself for not finishing college that is why I didn't have a job right now. Blaming myself because my height is just 4" 11, blaming myself because I do not have a good personality. We often have a lot of excuses for ourselves. Excuses in life are not an excuse anyway. Our baggage is no excuse for succeeding in life
We should be responsible for our actions and ways every time. Believe it or not, we can still succeed even if we have a lot of flaws in life. If we can fulfill our purpose of living, that is a success.
Don't wear a mask
I didn't mean here about covid 19, what I mean is about behavior and feelings.
Even if we are so hurt or almost give up, we can pretend to happy despite our pain upon doing this. Don't put a cover on your sad and lonely heart, it will come out at an unexpected time will just cause you disappointment and it will destroy your focus on your goal.
Don't wear a mask to fit in this world, it might turn out you're pretending with yourself and keeps you from developing your path of achievement.
Always be grateful
Being grateful is a good attitude that will attract positive things, if we are always thankful it can help us to have a good view in life to pursue our dreams.
If we always eat eggs in the morning, then we should be thankful that there is still food on the table.
Embrace the unknown
Most people were afraid of the unknown, or even dislike it most of the time. Unknown things might be strange and hard to accept but we should embrace the fact that there might be changed in our life in every way. Like the pandemic, we didn't expect it to happen but it does, and we don't know what more is to come. By embracing it we can recognize who can make ourselves adjustments in every possible thing to happen.
Here is a poem that blessed me
The road to success is not straight
There is a loop called confusion
Speed bumps called friends
Red lines called enemies
Caution lines called family
But if you have spare called
An engine called perseverance
Insurance called faith
And driver named Jesus
You will make it a place called success
They said old dogs cannot learn n things but now, old dogs are capable to learn new things.
Practice makes perfect, but constant practice makes permanent. If we have a goal in our life make it to the point of pursuing it each day, like doing an exercise, you may have 30 minutes a day, but once you are into it, you can add a few minutes after a few days.
Take a single step to start your journey.
Thank you for reading.
