"Be careful who you open up to".
Guarding your heart means preserving yourself from unfavorable results like toxic people, and evil behavior. It looks like guarding your mind and body against anything that isn't life providing or establishing when you guard your heart you choose not to listen to critical or untrue conversations.
Every day we encounter different people through personal engagement or on social media. The time that we spent interacting with them catches up with different thoughts and ideas through conversation. Often we absorb different opinions from the time we heard them, and it goes to our mind, our heart. It causes trouble within us and makes a heart beats faster and end up to a sleepless night.
When we talk about the heart ,we can connect the issue of being in love or accepting a person to be in our heart, meeting a special someone. Oftentimes we cry because of heartbreaks and failure in our marriages. This is one reason why we should guard our hearts.It is a deep feeling of being in love, we cannot explained it, no words can described how beautiful feeling that love can bring.But we should be wise of choosing our special someone to preserve our heart, to avoid a heartbreak which will take a very time.to heal than wounds.
Our heart is our body's storage
Storage for memories, good or bad things. This is where it all began, every action that we make came from our heart, the words we speak showed up from the heart. If we guard our hearts every action and decision will be right.
Store up memories that matters with you and keep while discard every bad things in your heart to set you free.
Our heart is the most important organ of the body
Our hearts pump thousands of gallons of blood every day. It is the strongest organ in the body that can lift heavy material. And when we allow ourselves to be full of negativity around us, this organ will be put into trouble that can cause irregularity of our heartbeats.
Choose your conversations
It doesn't mean that we should not talk to people but it just we should choose our conversations. When the topic will just cause us stress and dismay it's better not to entertain such people, Those who speak our toxic words will be alone with our heart then it becomes our battle inside.If we negative thoughts to consume us, by letting garbage to enter in our hearts.
Take things slowly
Falling in love should not be in a rush, it takes one step at a time. No forcing someone to do something which will end up being broken. Based on my experienced it's better that you have to get to know each other first so that you will find out the best and the worst things from both parties.
Know your triggers
No one is entitled to warn us but our instinct, we should what are the things, topics that will make us stress. There are certain words that can trigger our feelings or hurt us.
Acknowledge the truth
Toxic words are very harmful in our heart, as lies. There must be an acknowledgment about that truth to let that words comes into our hearts.All that is pure and true are good things and treasures to be stored within.
Conclusion
It's not bad to fall in love and to trust the people around us but what is important that our heart is in good care so that our life will remain productive and healthy.
A healthy living must have a healthy heart.By guarding our heart is cultivating a life in line with having a reasonable lifestyle.
Take care of your heart, keep on beating.💚💚💚💚💚
Thank you.
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