Conversation with wives This article is based on my conversation with some women in my neighborhood. Yesterday, we have a serious conversation about marriage life which is very occasional. And one of the questions that we have laughed at, because it's not answerable with a yes and no, and it's often ask every day is "What will be our viand?(viand refers to a food, fish or meat accompany with rice) Most housewife especially Filipina ask this question everyday.Ano bang uulamin…
No one can boost It's mine,it's my own position. Do you believe that everything that we have is all temporary and its considered as borrowed?Yes, it is,!We only borrowed it from the ones who created everything, nothing that we have that we can carry afterlife. We are born who bring nothing and we all gone bring nothing also. According to the scripture we are made through the ashes, the soil.Everything I step into it, it will always remind me not to become proud and think…
Does gentleman still matters? **When you have a dinner with your man, he will get a chair for you, or entering the house he will open the window.He will not touch you at least with permission and talking to a girl politely.** For girls, do you prefer a gentlemen or not?And how important to have a partner, husband who have this attitude? Women would feel very special if they are treated gently with men.Like getting a chair, opening a window, it seems that we are valued or…
When is the right time to say 'I love You" After 2 months, 6 months, 1year, 2 years? Will you say "I love you", for the first time? Well, in my experience, my husband says " I like you", in our first meeting. It takes a few months before he says, 'I love you. say "I love you to me." Why did a man says 'I like you instead of 'I love you? Based on the personal confession," because he was not sure at first with his feelings or having a doubt with each other."When I first hear…
C-130 crushed in Julu Sulu(Call of duty)My realization It's a heartbreaking tragedy that happens on July 04 2021. The plane was break and destroyed while it's on the air, and crushed into the coconut farm in Julu Sulu and it's on fire. The soldiers got bruises, burn, and 50 soldiers have died. The others who have been rescued and already confined in the hospital for medication, the other has a burned body that's why some of them are not easy to be identified by their…
My version of (Never, I have ever)Single/Married life Never have I ever expect to write like this, hehe.This game is something funny and very interactive , applicable for couples , friends and a group. **NEVER-is the answer given when the questions said that you haven't done.** **I HAVE-is the answer given when you have done what is ask in the question**. When I open my notifications here, most of my subscriptions have already published their articles about "never I have…
When is it okay not to be okay And when is it not okay not to be okay This one of the most difficult questions during the Binibining Pilipinas pageant which is given by the "King of talk, Mr.Boy Abunda". These words are often used as a quote online, and often read in noise. cash also. But the difference here was to ask both opposite situations of being okay and not to be okay. And if you see the video online, the candidate has a hard time answering these questions. Okay,I…
Expectations vs.Reality How can you do this to me? I thought you love me?Why? **What do you expect from your friend?** That he/she will always be loyal and honest, that you will not discover secrets abd they will always be the best. **What do you expect from your children?** That after they finished school, they will be having a stable job and pay back their educational expenses. It hurts! **What do you expect from your husband?** My husband should provide for my needs and…
Questions for Myself(piece of Me) Dear self, are you okay?Questions to answered about me. But before that let me share with you a short story of myself. How is my life with my marriage? Just a short detail of me. **Where did my name came from?** When my mother have labored in the house(im about to came out) my father buys basic needs for the baby and he saw the sales lady nametag. Then, he remembers that name until I was born.(Rowena) **Dear self, are you happy?** As of now,…
Will you, me choose to forgive?Set Free We can make a prison deep inside. In what way? If we didn't choose to forgive. Why do we need to forgive? Is this means forgetting all that they did to us? Forgiveness is very important with every relationship, like family, siblings, marriage, friends. Because if we will not forgive, it's just like your keeping yourself imprisonment deep inside. It will affect us deeply which can lead us to bitterness, anger, and vengeance mindset. It…
Children can possibly hurt their Mother Is it possible that children will hurt their mother, physically or emotionally which seems so cruel that is inappropriate against the law of the land and with God? **A short story** There was a high school student who is a daughter of a poor woman who used to be a nanny. But her daughter was well provided with her basic needs from clothes to her daily allowance to go to school every day. One day, her mother visit her on campus, and…
When I was a kid (stock in my memory) When I was a kid I ***use to get firewood*** from the mountain with my friends, my parents don't give instructions to do so but I am encouraged by my friends who always do it every day. When I was a kid, I always ***wash our clothes in the river, carrying a bundle of*** clothes in my head towards the river. We bring food to eat in the afternoon and eat with our bare hands with dried fish and rice. When I was a kid, my ***parents will let…
Batang Ina(Young mom struggle) It cannot be denied that there are a lot of girls who get married early, at the age of 14 is the youngest I think. The reality of being a mom at an early age is a big deal and giving too much pressure especially when there is no one to guide them at the first semester of being a mom. I get married at the age of nineteen, and become pregnant without any preparation in terms of finances, without any knowledge on how to take care of a baby. The…
Who is a Friend? Can I call a friend? Why do we almost prefer a friend if we need something. A friend is someone that seems like a family to us. Someone that we trust or rely on, who tap our shoulder, or give a hug and is a great companion of our daily journey. This reminds me of the quote that "no man is an island", which means we can't live without the presence of someone. During this pandemic time, there are a lot of people who suffer from scarcity with food and financial…
Keep on trying Walk on, with Fear There are things that I feel afraid to try before, and recently, because of some changes that happen. "Try and try until you succeed"," There's no harm in trying," Wala namang mawawala sayo, ba't di mo subukan". These are all familiar quotes often heard anywhere, before and in this season of hardships. What keeps us holding on, and why some people didn't even try to do things that they like? Most of all, we all have fear, and it's normal for…
Floating minutes (Lutang means for me) What lutang means?So it's tagalog word that means floating, for me it's a time when a person is not with himself 100%, his mind is thinking somewhere else.Physically present but mentally absent, somethings bothering with a person thinking which can result to a wrong action, weird or even committing mistake. Here we go, it's a new trend topic now, where the writers are having fun sharing their "lutang moments or floating minutes in…
Don't laugh with others deficiency? People who have deficiencies with their physical appearance were often bullied by some insensitive people. They may sometimes say that it was just a small thing, or just a joke if it was, and just having fun. They might think that it's funny to laugh at others' weakest part but for me, it's not. I have heard a man who makes her friends laugh by using the facial feature of a man that he criticized and the rest of the people around laugh…
Bedtime talks when I was a Kid I know that everyone has a bedtime story to tell, my bedtime stories are not like the fairytale stories found in the books, not any fictional stories. It's different this was my memory when I was six years old. We sleep together as one family in one room, my parents and my 4 siblings because we have a very small house way back in 1997. At that time, there was no electricity already in our place, so we used "gas", a lamp with kerosene to have a…
Kids Before and Kids Today Have you observed the big difference of the children before and today?In my personal experience I have observed with my children and the kids around us are too hard to follow the tasks that their parents have given to them.Most parents, especially the mothers have to yell their name calling around the corner from which they gathered with other kids.Hehe,I too have do the same, almost everyday. According to my father, when they were young , they do…
Freedom not just One Day What if you are given freedom for one day, a day that you can do anything you want. "I will go to shopping,"I will eat on any fast foods,"I will buy a beautiful car, I will go to Paris". What should I do? But what most people desire , maybe to have a "first-hand experience", in everything that they want to do, and to try something new which he has never been done before. I always heard the sayings"You only live once ", what does it mean? Does it mean…
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