Why can good things also get bad luck?
There is a wise saying "Be careful what you sow, because what you sow is what you will reap".
If you've ever heard words like that, whether it might really happen or maybe it's wrong doesn't match with real life.
For some who feel that the words are true, but why has it happened often lately, we feel that we have tried to be good people, do good things, but why are the results not good and we get bad luck. How can it be like that!
If only I was asked about whether I believe that in life we will get the results of what we sow, honestly I personally do not believe, do not be influenced by the theory of the left or the theory of the right. Let's just see in the future, in real life is it true that good people will also get good deeds in return, if you think about it maybe the answer is no.
It's not always like that, in fact we must have met good people, but instead their fate is not good and even loses to the fate of someone who rarely does good, is life unfair?
Don't think about it, actually we have also received knowledge since school, if we don't agree with what we reap when we plant, then what is the most correct, so actually there is no problem with what we plant in life, it can be change our lives, what will change our lives is how we plant kindness.
A very simple but very important thing, in fact we do not only plant goodness if we want to also get good, the fact is not like that what must be considered is the way we plant a good deed, from here we also realize that it is true, then if that is the case, what is the correct explanation!
This means that planting goodness with the way we plant goodness is very different, the philosophy may be like this, if we have a field and one day we have seeds, we definitely want those seeds to thrive, that's normal, but one day. in time. suddenly a disaster occurred, the seeds that we had planted earlier were not in accordance with the results we wanted. Likewise in real life we want to be people who always get good deeds.
And if we ignore the results of infertile seeds then all problems will be solved, maybe not, because we must have felt disappointed, just as we have done good but what we get is hurt.
Perhaps what should be paid more attention to is how to plant the seed or plant a kindness, which means fixing all our hopes first.
We are all indeed required to do good, but the key is to fix our expectations first, because what makes us disappointed and hurt is an expectation that doesn't match.
For example, in a romantic relationship we are loyal and always do good, of course we expect our partner to be faithful too, I think that's an unreasonable expectation, because we can't control someone's behavior, so when we expect someone to behave like that. maybe it doesn't make sense.
Do we always feel disappointed, it's very normal if we do good, we also want to get good deeds, that's true, then if we can't expect kindness in return, what else should we hope for?
The key is to hope that with everything that happens, everything is the best for us. Because in fact nothing is in vain that happens in our lives, there must be a lesson in every one of them that we can take to become even better.
If everything goes according to what we expect, is it possible that it can make us happy, of course not because surely we already know and can guess from the results of hope because we are used to it.
As we watch the same movie over and over again, surely we feel bored because we already know the storyline, the same thing in real life if all hopes come true.
From now on, change your mindset about doing good, you will also get good deeds in return, do good sincerely, and all the rewards for our good deeds are indeed the best for us.
Fix our intentions by always doing good and whatever happens after that we will accept sincerely because that is the best.