Love is a natural phenomenon. As much as we may want, we cannot order, seek, or take away love, just as we cannot command the Moon and the stars, the rain, and the wind to appear and disappear according to our desires. We may have some limited ability to change the weather, but in doing so we are harming an entire ecological system that we hardly understand. Similarly, we can manage our ways of seduction, courtship, but the result will be infatuation, illusion, not love.
Love is greater than us. We can invoke love, but we cannot influence how, when, and where it will be born. We can choose to surrender to love or not, but in the end, love appears as a thunderbolt, unpredictable, and strong. It can even happen that we like people we don't like at first. Love does not choose gender, it is all around us. Love does not come by conditioning, determining, supplementing, or resolving intricate codes, love comes as the Sun radiating its energy, independent of our fears and desires.
Love is completely free. It cannot be bought, sold, or exchanged for anything else. One cannot be forced to love someone else, nor can it be prevented. Love can be neither law nor prison. Love is not a substance, nor a commodity, nor is it on the market. Love has no territory, no boundaries, no computable mass, or energy.
Some people can buy a sexual partner or even a spouse. Marriage is a matter of law, rules, property, and court. In the past, the price of marriage was measured by a dowry, today it is measured by a prenuptial agreement. But again the same question what is marriage without love? Love cannot be bought.
Some people can buy loyalty, companionship, attention, maybe even pity, but love cannot be bought. An orgasm can be bought, but love cannot. It comes, or not, by grace, by its own will, in its own time, which man cannot influence. Love is not planned.
Love is not a reward. Love is not a punishment either. Love can be used as bait, as a hook for sacrifice, but then love is not sincere and is not real. Love springs from the heart and cannot be hidden. Love is free.
This does not mean that love is not destructive, offensive, and uncontrollable. Mutual relations are based on two things: communication and compromise. Strong emotions often prevent us from looking at the situation objectively. Under the influence of a strong feeling of anger or fear, we are not able to hear what the other person is trying to say. Love advocates justice, love protests when injustice is done. Love emphasizes the pain of the other or of oneself. Love provides space for anger, rage, sadness, and pain to free us. But love does not threaten anyone, it helps us. Love does not say directly or indirectly: "If you are naughty, I will not love you anymore!", Love does not say: "You did not do it!", Love does not say: "If you want to be loved, you must be good to me, to do what I tell you, to love only me, that if you love me you will have sex with me and promise me that you will never leave me. ". It is not loving.
Love should interest everyone because it is in us because love knows that we are all interconnected. Love is full of beauty, grace, knowledge, generosity, and passion. Love knows that I and others are the same, equal. True love cannot be limited, nor can love be manipulated. Love is a part of every soul. Love is the law.