Each of us has a difficulties in life and it depends on us on how are we going to surpass it .
Forgiveness is a very hard decisions . If someone made an horrible things to you, you'll remember it until on your last breath. You can forgive but you cannot forget . Everybody are capable on hurting you physically, emotionally and even mentally. There are people that hard for them to give easily the forgiveness that the person ever wanted. Forgiveness is an easy word to speak but to the person you're asking for forgiveness, it's really hard for them to accept it easier. People have different perspectives, perceptions and mindsets. You can tell them your ways on how you forgive the person, but you can't force them to follow your steps.
Some people may think that forgiveness encourages the wrongdoer to do the mistakes again. People tend to act that nothing was wrong, that it can solve the problems or situations easy as pie but sometimes people are thinking wrong and making wrong ideas to their minds. There are some questions always remains in their minds, Is it hard to ask forgiveness? or Is it hard to give forgiveness?
Pride is one of the reasons why is it people hard to forgive and ask for forgiveness. The moment when pride strikes on someone's mind, you can't forced them to do the right thing should do.
There are ways on how to forgive and ask for forgiveness :
👉 COMMUNICATION
👉 LISTENED
👉 UNDERSTAND
👉 ACCEPTANCE
👉 FORGIVENESS
👉 HAPPINESS
First, COMMUNICATION. Communication is important because it is the only way for you to know what is going wrong and how to get know the real score between the two parties. If there's no communication involves, it's going to be more harder.
Second, LISTENED. You both need to listen each others side. Listening can lead to a betterment for the both of you . You can at least realized things just by listening.
Third, UNDERSTAND. You both need to understand the situation your into. Don't make unnecessary moves with out even knowing and understanding why it all happens. After hearing your both sides, try to digest on your mind the said reasons of the both of you.
Fourth, ACCEPTANCE. Whoever had a mistakes should accept the fact that you both did wrong on your selves. The only way to end these problem, you need to accept all the circumstances because it helps a lot.
Fifth, FORGIVENESS. After the communication, listening, understanding, accepting, its time to forgive. The best part of along quarrel is the forgiveness. Sometimes the extent to which your trust is breached determines the ease of difficulty in forgiving. Learn to let go of the things that have no longer part on your life. The ability to forgive gives us a sense of freedom and make us suffer less and feel lesser misery and pain.
Lastly, HAPPINESS. Finally, you can have now the happiness you truly deserves. It's a great feeling when you let go of the things that no longer part on your existence. Your idea on forgiving brings you to the happiness you deserved. You can freely start a new journey and make happy moments without thinking any burden. You can make a new version of your self. Who would ever thought that the Forgiveness your holding can lead you to your real happiness.
@Virgo2