@Vincent21
My friends are neglecting me: too sad for me I had few friends, and we are really close to each other. We're always together whenever there are parties, birthdays or a bondings. But that was only before.. Before I became too busy. We love to play sports such as basketball. And we tend to raid and challenge some places to gather money. Even we lose or win, we weren't blaming each other because we understand that game is a game. I am the initiator of our bondings. Whatever I recommend they're going to agree with me. One time I asked one of my friend to get a duck from his small farm. He did it, so that we had something delicious to eat. Everytime we play online games such as mobile legends they get boring without me. I am their damage dealer and core. They wanted to play with me as always. But, that was just before.. **Refusing isn't a good idea** One day, they told me to join them with their bonding so that it would be much merrier. But I told them that I am busy. They only seen my message and didn't replied to our group chat. Then few days later, they tried to take me to play basketball. But still, I refused to go. I told them that I am busy writing an article and playing nft games since I had a lot of accounts from different games. My mother even scold me why do I always wander anywhere. I just told her that " *I am looking for a signal, so that I could update my games and earning sites.*". Gladly she's not mad at me. They tried persuaded me many times and ask if I am available. But, I refused them a lot of times. But, I didn't hurt them with words. I just told them that I am doing online tasks. My best friend told our gang that " *don't let him join us, he's too busy now. We can't force someone.*". He thought that I was away and didn't heard his words. **They don't want me anymore** I didn't receive any updates and message from them anymore. I saw them post some photos together without updating me. They tend to do rides without informing me.
Earlier, I saw them playing basketball without me. They just look at me from afar, but didn't say any words. Even just "how are you?". I guess they've already decided to make me out of the team. Since I am not a type of person which wanted to insert ownself just to fix everything, I'm prideful too. **Do you have any advice?** Well, what should I do? Since I am already busy looking for extra money. I don't have enough time to keep up with them. Should I leave them? Or go back with them? (Sighs) it's really true business kills. Maybe they'll find out soon why I stopped wasting my time, and instead make it profitable. Maybe they missed me. That is why they tend to hurt me too. I guess. Is that really friends are? Or should I stay away from them? ________________________ Hello! Vincent21 here again! Writing some own stories and experience.
I hope we wont lose real friends because they are too rare. Well, they should understand someone when he/she is getting busy for the sake of future jeeezz. I want to flex with you my cool sponsors. You can check their written great articles too! And gather lots and lots of ideas from them. Goodnight! Sleep well guys.
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If true friend sila they will understand you and support you.
Lage, yel.. Okay nmn me, gipasabot naku.. Haha katu panang niaging semana
Time and distance doesn't matter if they are "true" friend. When you get older and become matured you will realize and discover whom your true friends really are. Hindi kailangan lagi kayong magkakasama, hindi kailangan lagi kayong nag-uusap, at mas lalong hindi kailangan na ilaan mo lahat ng oras mo sa kanila. Remember you have priorities na kailangan unahin, at kung totoong kaibigan sila maiintindihan nila yun amd you don't need to explain it to them. Don't feel discourage or sad about it, true friends will understand your shortcomings.
Na touch po ako sa sinabi nyu po.. Salamat sa payo. Sinabihan ko nalang sila na sasabayan ko sila, pero di na ako makikipag laro ng ML at iinom.
I think you should learn them for something more profitable. If they're really your friends they will understand.
Thank you sir kristoff.. I tried to invite them at noise and read cash but, they can't..
Hays puro raman na sila gud lingaw.x pero ikaw nagmature naman ka ginaset aside lang nmu ang mga ing ana but to tell you honestly ayaw kaayo palabi ug grind kay daghan sad nabalaka nmu my friend just keep the balance and give your friends some time. And even your family. Don't be upset everything will be under control. Your read.cash friends are still here to support you.
Cge lang, ani man jud ang trabaho kailangan gahinan ug oras.. Bahalag pulaw basta naay wawarts.
You haven’t lost them, it’s just a matter of understanding and everything will fall in place.. you can approach one of them and ask why you where suddenly left out of the group. I know how this feels
Ill try to approach them thank you so much sir Gozie for you kind words.
I really understand their actions, it hurts when someone is being snubbed or ignored. But nevertheless, you have to politely explain to them your motives and recent engagements. Since you're hunting for money, it's even good you give them a path it follow.
Yeah, my priority today are my debts.. Thank you so much bro kiingsley..