There comes a time in everyone's life when enough is enough, this applies to all areas in your life. When your relationship is enough, when there has been enough cheating, enough lying, enough put downs, you are just done and you want out at all cost.
When your job is enough, it's crushing you, you hate going every day, you cry going and coming home. You feel that you are not fulfilling your dreams or God's Destiny for your life. You are suffocating and it doesn't matter how much money you are making, because it is not worth it anymore.
What about your partying ways? Are you drinking every day? Are you sick of waking up every day feeling like you got run over by a bus? You miss work, you lay in bed, swearing you won't do it again, yet there you are the next weekend pounding them down.
When you keep dating one loser after another, when they are not bringing anything to the table but their dicks, and it's enough. When you finally realize that you deserve so much more.
When is it enough? It's when you are sick and tired, of being sick and tired, that is when it will be enough!
When you I can't possibly imagine going through one more day doing this. When you want better for yourself and your life, when you realize, you deserve better. When you start to love yourself, value yourself. When you decide to share your life with a person who cares about you, not just to end up alone and drunk, or thirty years later with a gold watch for a job you hated.
I realized this when my mom passed away and then again, when my best friend suddenly passed, how truly short life is. I realized that I didn't want to waste a second longer being unhappy, being sick and tired so I made a change and now my life is incredible!
I focused on me, on becoming the best me I can be, in my health, my peace of mind, of what I want and what I no longer will settle for, ever!
So today my friends, remember you can change your life, it is up to you. You can dump the losers, you can lose the job that's killing you, you can cut off those toxic friends and family members. It's your life, you get to choose and when the day comes and you realize enough is enough, then all things are possible.
Seriously, be strong and know when enough is enough. Take your stand, speak up and refuse to let others hurt you. Throughout your lifetime some people will discredit you, disrespect you and treat you poorly for no apparent reason at all. Don’t consume yourself with trying to change them or win their approval. And don’t make any space in your heart to hate them. You don’t have control over what others think about you, but you do have control over how you decide to internalize their opinions. Leave them to their own judgments. Let people love you for who you are, and not for who they want you to be. Or let them walk away if they choose. They can’t harm you either way; it’s their understanding that is faulty, not yours.
~Unknown
"Be the change you want to see"