Partner Compatibility
Diagnosis of the destination matrix allows you to most deeply see the person himself and those energies that have an impact on his life. Often, a person himself, having seen and calculated his matrix, learns about himself something new and better understands the causes of negative moments in his life.
This diagnosis also helps to answer individual questions. Not always a person needs an overall picture of his purpose. Often people ask questions and wait for specific answers to them. And one of the most frequently asked is the relationship issue. For example: Where can I meet a partner? Which partner suits me better? How do I need to behave so that relationships add up Best with a partner?
I was approached by a woman asking:
"I have been living with a man in a civil marriage for 5 years. It happened differently, but in general I try to support it in everything, but I'm not sure that he is not cheating on me. But sometimes there are bursts and a showdown, after which one thought is to give up everything and live alone. But it’s so disappointing for the years spent ... And not always so terrible. And I got used to it. Also not it turns out to leave, because he does not let me go, he constantly reminds me of himself, until I return to him again. Is it possible matrix to determine how compatible we are? "
Yes, of course, you can turn to the destination matrix and look at compatibility between partners. And besides, see how to behave better to maintain relationships.
Woman (Tatyana) 01/11/1970
Male (Valery) 01/13/1969
So, let's see if there is compatibility between Tatyana and Valery and what opportunities exist for preserving of this union.
First of all, it is striking that both partners have energy (1) - the Mage at the top point. This suggests that both partners are endowed with a unique gift. And they need to stand out from the crowd. They are leaders, innovators, confident in themselves, clearly know their goals. If the energy went into negative, then a person can overestimate his self-esteem and thus behaves selfishly. Or, on the contrary, a person does not believe in his strength and develops complexes. Obviously, one of the partners is too high self-esteem, and the other on this soil accumulates complexes.
Tatyana, having energy in her personal resource (11), has a lot of strength and energy. She has time everywhere, she is curious, open, funny. She needs space for development, caressing for nature, interaction with the elements in order to restore your strength. The only thing is that Tatyana can work hard and be very impatient, she cannot wait long and therefore often goes ahead. Valeria with his resource energy (13) is very active, fearless, he is an experimenter. He does not tolerate monotony. And changing everything around, she can push Tatiana to change. The main thing is that Valery should not show aggressiveness and harshness, because it can say what he thinks right in the face and at the same time offend a person.
Let's see which partner is most suitable for each partner. For Tatyana, such a partner is possessor of energy (6). This is a beautiful partner who knows how to care for himself, is sociable, strives for love. Such a partner should come into the life of Tatiana, but in the future she can still doubt the correctness of the choice. These experiences, whether the partner chosen may occur in life often. Therefore, it is worth stopping at one partner and trying to create a family with him. For Valery, such a partner is the owner of energy (4). This is a woman with a strong character, a real administrator in the house. She knows how to plan leisure and domestic issues. She has a lot of ideas, has time both at work and at home. At work is also leader. She tries to ensure the future of her children by any means.
As you can see, the energies that characterize the right partners are found both in Tatiana and Valery in the comfort zone. Tatyana’s energy (4), and Valery (6). Therefore, when these energies are in positive territory, both partners are happy and fit together perfect. This means that problems in relations can arise if at least one of the partners has energy that goes into minus. If Tatiana’s energy (4) goes into minus, then she can be aggressive, belligerent, intolerant, find fault with him and pushing away from yourself. If Valery’s energy (6) is in the red, then he may be too talkative and quarreled with Tatyana, sort things out all night. He can write SMS, make calls if partners are not nearby, but it is very difficult to stop. So how negative thoughts are torn apart from within. He can only see the outer shell and forget about the inner. Also, doubts about partner can make you think about changing it. Against this background, thoughts of treason may appear. And Tatyana, wanting to have a family, understands that the relationship is not stable and begins to sort things out, to find fault, and all this leads to conflict. So very it’s important to bring these energies into a plus.
Tatyana needs to learn to be more tolerant. If we pay attention to the entry point of the partner, then we will see the energy (15). Definitely you need to be more tolerant and not criticize your partner. It may also show that the partner is able to change, have external connections and Tatyana, it is important to experience these moments and take them as a lesson and show wisdom. Valery has energy at the partner's entry point (9), she shows that Valery can meet a partner through the wisdom of knowledge. Maybe he and his partner will be on some activities, training, spiritual practices. Or this person will share his knowledge of wisdom with him, give the necessary information and this will be an impetus for acquaintance. And here it is important to understand how Valery himself is ready to act wisely too, having accepted this knowledge, since there is energy on the line of relations (8) - the energy of order, law and justice.
To better understand how both partners manifest themselves in a relationship, let's look at the energies that stand on Anahata.
Tatyana has it (9.19, 10). It is very important for her to maintain an internal balance and be able to be alone, so as there is an internal craving for this - to reflect, to look deep into yourself. Being even in a pair, periodically there is a need for to experience a state of loneliness. It is important to communicate with nature, to expand knowledge about yourself, you need to give yourself time for of this. If this is not done, then the Universe can specially give such moments that a person will be alone. And love a person must learn to accept Tatyana at such moments, to understand that she needs it. At such moments, new ones come. ideas, knowledge that help both yourself and others. This may concern questions about ideal relationships and about Tom. how to keep a partner. Tatyana must understand how to accept joy in a relationship. If energy (19) is in the red, then Tatyana may blame a partner for failure in a relationship. And the relationship will be based on guilt. Need to find moments for joy and understand where you can have fun together, enjoy a relationship. You can create interest clubs and share joy with by other people. Going together in a partner to such clubs and this will help to feel each other better, to feel the situation, be in the flow and easily go in a relationship together with a partner.
Valery (13,7,20). He does not tolerate uniformity in relations and will change everything around him. He will strive to change partner and yourself at the same time. Therefore, it is important to understand how to change relationships, how to transform correctly, how strengthen relationships, when you need to leave relationships forever, when to go forward and develop relationships. The desire to lead interfere with the process. For Valery, there is a need to be constantly on the move, you need to set goals and achieve them. Can go to nature. to carry out and lead an active lifestyle. And then the goal of the relationship will be the creation of a family, serious relationships in which children will be born and increase the gender. Also in relationships for Valery, the ability to play an important role organize leisure activities for children. A calm and measured life can lead to the destruction of relationships, since such people with energy (13) cannot live in uniformity. By doing everything right, he can change and take relations to a new level. Otherwise possible destruction of the relationship. Thus, for Valery it is important that Tatyana constantly changes and turns into another person, wear costumes, change makeup, hairstyle.
If we add their energies, which are in the comfort zone, we will get energy (10). This is the energy with which they both Feel happy in a relationship. This is when you can relax and have fun without straining, rejoicing to everyone lived day together. Be in positive emotions and not get stuck in the past. And move constantly, create, travel, communicate, work. Do not listen to anyone, but understand each other at a glance, at a glance, feeling each other's shoulder. And intuitively moving in unison, in one direction.
Summary and tip for maintaining your relationship:
Tatyana needs to make a difference in the relationship, trying to change herself, at least externally. Be wiser and more tolerant show your confidence in the partner. No need to splash out aggression. Since there is a lot of energy and it is necessary somewhere to direct, it is more often to be in nature, go in for sports, find a club that could interest a partner. Or most create a new project in which both the partner and other people will be able to take part. Plan your leisure, but do not drive into the framework, so as a partner, this is not suitable. He needs movement and a change of scenery.
Valery in this situation can be advised to support Tatyana and not to criticize. Accept her as a woman, solving problems in peaceful way. Become more focused and learn how to achieve your goal. And move more, move, travel along with Tatyana. If there is no movement, then Valery, in need of some changes, can concentrate his attention to Tatyana and find fault with her. not letting her be periodically alone with herself. And she needs it to search for new ideas and for answers to deep questions.