This morning I went to our relatives' house to see two of my cutest and loveliest nieces as I am longing to see them everyday. Their house is only a couple of minutes away by walk from ours. And seeing me early in the morning gives them excitement for another playful day. The joy I saw in their faces was immeasurable.
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We played the whole day. And because their mother was out of town because of business matters, I was the one requested to babysit the two kids.
The house was filled with happiness, joy and noise because of the fun we had.
They didn't want me to lose in their sight that even when I use the comfort room or toilet they're there in the toilet's door waiting for me to finish. Even for a couple of minutes that they lose sight of me, you'll hear them crying and shouting looking for me. Hahaha.
So today I am going to share to you my tips to make your kids/nephews and nieces love you that they would want to see you everyday. I am assuring you that your relationship with them will grow even more. So here it is.
Tips To Be Love By Your Nephews And Nieces.
Play And Share The Fun With Them
This is the most effective way to tighten your bond with them. As a child, playing and having fun is what's all in their mind. Being with them to play with would make a big impact to the child and it would make them excited every time they see you. Your smiles and laughter really mean to them.
Comfort And Carry Them When They Cry
When they are being naughty and hardheaded and their parents scolded and make them cry, they would feel that they have no one to side with them. Just a hug and carrying them would make them feel that they still have someone to run to and accompany them. A comfort is all they need to lessen the feeling they have when crying.
Scold But Don't Shout At Them
Shouting at a child because it is being hardheaded to make them follow doesn't make any sense. It's still a child and a child is limited to understandings. A low but a hard voice will be enough to make them understand what you wanted to tell them.
Don't Get Physical!
This is the biggest NO-NO. Never ever use your hand to a child just to make them follow you. Aside that you are hurting them, you are also making your relationship to them lead to vanish. It may lead for a child to be scared with you and would never come close to you. Just don't use your hands, it is just a child.
Shower Or Take A Bath With Them
This is also one way for you to grow your relationship with them. Taking a bath with someone would be more fun than taking a bath alone for them. Exchanging splashes of water makes so much fun with someone and you should take that as an opportunity to make them even closer to you.
Adult Talking
Treat them and talk to them like they are already an adult one. Talking to them with sincerity even if the topics are making no sense still serves as an opening of yourself to them. Exchanging answers and questions to them are beneficial for the bond you have with them to grow. Talk seriously, then laugh. That's joy!
Walk With Them Around or Within Your Place
It is not always around or within the house. Childs also needs to go around for a walk outside. Take them with you, run with them, have sweat with them and get scolded together with their parents. Imagine a child's face getting outside the house just to have some fun with you. That would be joyous.
Spoil But Not Too Much
Listen to them. Do what they want you to do. Give them what they want. Buy things or foods they love. But don't overdo it. If they are being hard, scold them and talk about other things so their attention will take to another. It's also a practice for a child not to a materialistic one when they grow up.
Spoil Them With Hugs and Kisses
Your nephews and nieces love that. They can notice and think that you are acting weird without receiving it when you are around. They would love you to show that you love and care for them with it. Just make sure are clean though.
We were not so close and doesn't have much bond and strong relationships with my nieces as I was not able to watch them grow till they were 3 years old. And I made to have a lovely relationship with them because of the actions I made for them to get closer to me.
How about you? Are you close enough with them?
Make them love now and made a strong bond of relationship with them.
Thank you @TheRandomRewarder ❤️