Two incidents happened in our office that made me realize that some women use their sexuality for taking favors from their seniors. I have bold the letters "some women" because not all women do that. Most of the women work hard and smart to be recognized as valuable workers but still, some people think that women only use their beauty and sex appeal to advance in the workspace. It's not their fault because they are living in a male dominant world that does not think very highly of women. They think women should not work in the workplace, they should be taking care of their homes. They think women cannot excel in the workplace on a merit basis and hard work so they use their sex appeal to get promotions, increments, and avail facilities from their seniors.
I have seen employees of my offices comment the same. "One dirty fish spoils the whole pond" so we can put blame on the dirty fishes who are not worthy enough to work smart and excel in the office on a merit basis. They use their body and beauty to seduce their perverted seniors and get ahead in the office.
Our former HR HOD was also a pervert who uses two girls and took sexual favors in return for facilities, house rents, and other perks. He was very famous in all of our projects and he was the reason why most of the male employees felt inferior because they knew they won't get any promotion just because the HOD is a creep who does not care about hard work. Some of the employees even joked about how it is worth going for gender-change surgery 😂.
Our pervert HR HOD used one girl (I am sure you guys would understand what do I mean by the word use) and then he asked her to marry him. She was only using it for favors so she denied and she had a reason to deny the marriage proposal because he was already married and had 3 children. When she denied it, he fired her for using the company's fuel for personal use. He was the one who allowed her in the first place.
After ditching that girl, he even received a termination letter from our main office because the girl tried to reach some big names of our office and complained to them. But our Executive director got his back and saved him from termination because she was totally dependent on him as he was actually the one who was running the office. It wasn't running though and I guess crawling would be a better word because everything was disorganized and the whole office looked like a mess. Everyone was involved in dirty politics and everyone was trying to get into the good books of the ED by false reporting and dirty tactics. I have seen some worse kind of non-professional attitude in those times.
He waited for some time after the whole incident and stayed away from his perverted activities because he has to clean his image. But a perv will always be a perv, no matter what. He started getting close to another girl again. Everyone was aware that now both of them will take advantage of each other. The girl gets the raise and received other perks for doing nothing. Just chatting and sitting in his office each and every day.
Luckily the management changed and the company put an end to his perverted activities by firing him on the spot. He wasn't only a pervert but he was also a corrupt too. Who got involved in the corruption of millions. He asked the girl to leave this organization after that. Girl left the organization without any notice and took a laptop and DSLR camera along with herself. This shows her moral compass too. They both have opened a firm for property dealing. Our former HR HOD financed the whole firm and she is with her.
I wonder why some girl does that for materialistic favors? Do They have any self-respect? I mean a person with a bit of self-respect won't use their body for any benefit. Why do they prefer to use their sex appeal instead of doing hard and smart work? It's totally wrong to compare all the female employees the same. I have seen some hard-working and dignified women in my career whose main focus is to be treated with respect and dignity. They work shoulder to shoulder with male employees and sometimes they even beat with their smartness and focus. It's just some female employees like those whose only aim is to gain easy money with zero respect damage the reputations of most of the self-esteemed female employees.
Those male employees should also be blamed and they have an equal part in the creation of such an unprofessional and toxic environment where no one wants to put in any hard work because they think their hard work has no output in front of charms and glamour which leads to zero productive environments. And those sick perverts also do not let other respectable female employees work peacefully and they constantly harass them verbally, psychologically. They do cheap tactics like bullying and spreading rumors about their character and try everything to make her agree for some favors.
I really hope you guys won't have seen an indecent environment in your workplaces. And if you do, share about it in the comment section if you want to.
Such perverted behaviour should be unacceptable and every body should frown at it