Friendship is another relationship of our life. Which is just 2nd after our family.
We born in a family. There we get father, mother, sister, brother, grand parents & uncle aunts. But with the passage of time, when we brought up we start our education , we go to schools & start to mix up with our classmates. Thus they become our friends. Some of them become our best friends.
In this way our lives run. And with the time, the number of our friends increases. Sometimes we loose some of them. And make new more friends. It happens most of the time for our parents's job, changing city or shifting home. Then we have to be transfered from our old educational institution to a new one. Thus we make many new new friends.
In our life, a huge part is selected for our friends. We spend a lot of time with our friends. We share our personal informations With each other. We start to share our problems with each other. The friends who try to solve our problems and try to help us are our real friends. But most of them just ignore or avoid it. The are not our real friends. They are selfish. They stay with us just for their own interest. And in the time of their need they take help from us. But we cannot find them in time of our need or when we need them badly.
We all know the story of 2 friends and the bear. The moral of the story was, "A friend in need is a friend indeed." So we have to be choosy in making our friends. We don't need that fake friends who leave us in our danger. We should make the real friends who are always beside us and always try to help us, with whom we can be emotionally attached, with whom we can be really happy.
Having just one real friend is better than having a lot of Fake friends. Because they are not our friend at all. They are harmfull for us. Because they can do anything for their own interest. They even can harm us. So we need to be careful about it.
To make real friends we need to follow some important steps.
Find out that if your friend have any interest with you.
How he or she behaves with you in time of your danger.
How he or she reacts on your problems.
Are they concern for you or not.
How their mentality is.
How they behave to other friends.
Thus you can choose a real friend.
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You say it right. There is no benefit of making a great quantity of friends. if you can make some quality friends you will be happy in life.