Conflict in the household.
As a married couple, it's only natural that there are differences of opinion, let alone spouses, friends or students sometimes can have different opinions, right? It can cause fights, and fights in household should be avoided so that no one is harmed, especially fighting in front of child is not very good, because it can affect growth and development of child. There may be several causes of conflict in household including:
1. INCOME
The main problem in marriage is income, especially for newly married couples, some say this is a test for the first 5 years. Husband's income is greater than wife's is normal, but if opposite happens, problems can arise. Husband feels inferior because his income is not appreciated, while wife feels on top so that she becomes arrogant and does not respect her husband.
Solution : Even though wife's income is greater than husband's, try to be wise and still respect him. Appreciate any income, even if it is nominally small. Stay in good communication especially regarding household expenses, and being honest is key.
CHILDREN
Husband and wife certainly crave a child in family, absence of children also often causes prolonged conflict. Especially if husband always blames his wife for being barren. In fact, it takes medical evidence to determine whether a person is sterile or not.
Solution : Before this becomes a long problem, it's better to have a good talk with your husband. Invite your husband to check your condition together with doctor. If doctor says that you and your husband are healthy, it could be that you and your partner are being tested by God. However, if it's been years since your little one hasn't arrived yet, both of you can take another way, by adopting a child, if both parties agree.
IN- LAWS
In-laws are not like our parents, sometimes there are very big differences, especially regarding pattern of education. And presence of in-laws in household is often a source of conflict because parents-in-law are too involved in household affairs of their children.
Solution : If you don't like comments or reprimands from your in-laws, don't express them directly in front of your in-laws. Try to think calmly, invite your husband to brainstorm to resolve your conflict with your parents. Remember, everything, if done with a calm mind, result will be good.
4. OTHER PEOPLE'S PRESENCE
Presence of a third person, such as a close friend, sister-in-law or relative, in family is sometimes also a source of conflict in household. Little things that shouldn't be fussed over can turn into big problems. For example, matter of telling too long about household problems.
Solution : Openness is main issue, every time there is a problem it is better to discuss it with your partner first than tell it to a third person.
5. LIMITED COMMUNICATION
Couples who are both busy usually don't have enough time to communicate, and they meet at bedtime or on weekends. This lack or absence of time to share and communicate with each other often leads to misunderstandings. Husbands do not know the problems faced by their wives, and vice versa.
Solution : No matter how busy you are, you still have to commit that being with your family is main thing. This means that there must be time for family, vacation together or eat together. So, even though you and your husband work all day outside home, family is not neglected. You and your husband must be smart to divide time between work and family.
That's all I can write, some of it is my personal experience.