We still have those parents who are not open to their children because they believe or they think that being open to their children will lead to a point where children disrespect them.
Respect is learned and respect is earned, respect is observed from certain individuals and put into practice by those who know and understand its value.
Here are few reasons why you should be open to your children (From as little as 10 years old).
- It gives you value, maybe you didn't know, being open to your child helps in relieving stress in your mind.
If it's about relationships or substance abuse, be open to them, tell them about both advantages(if any) and disadvantages and let them ask you questions. You must tell them that partying is nice, booze is great, peer pressure is awesome but they are all greatest time wasters.
- It makes you lovable person. Every person wants to be close to people who give him value and people who are not controlled by emotions. Wouldn't you be so happy and grateful if you share/d everything with your parents? Would you still stress about things you never know how to tell them? Then do the same to your children. They will probably show you great love.
It makes you a hero, this unveils the leader within you and your children will always see you as their hero because it is in you where they get great advice and solutions for their problems.
It starts with you.