4 Telling Signs He Truly Love You
There are certain behaviors that a man exhibits or displays that could draw quickly to the fact that he really likes you and there are also certain signs that will inevitably show that he loves you. The truth is men who really love you will send out certain signals, same as those that don't really love you. These signs are very important signs and when you eventually get them, you will know that he isn't wasting your time and that your relationship with him has a future. You will enjoy the time you are spending with him without having to always ask yourself where the relationship is going.
1- HE WILL INVEST IN YOU - This is not about money like most of you think. By investing in you, he will be putting an effort of some sort that cost him something. An example can be when he leaves his friends to be with you without you asking for it, or when he watches your favorite tv show with you even though he honestly couldn't care less about it probably because it is aimed at women and he isn't the target audience, but he wants to spend that time with you, or he goes out with you and your friends, even though he may not really like those friends. As you can see, these are all investments because he has other opportunities, his time is limited, but he chooses to ignore those opportunities because he loves you and wants to do it for you. However, he obviously has his own life to live and can't do this all the time. He will invest in both you and the relationship. He will ultimately show that both you and the relationship are very important to him.
2- HE PROTECTS YOU - Men are designed from the ground up to always protect the woman they love. Not to protect the woman they like, but the woman they love. Interestingly, he is ready to give his life for the woman he loves if she is in danger. He will be afraid and scared, but he won't have to think about it. His love is so strong that he just wants you to be safe. Protecting you is an automated response of his body because he loves you. This is a great sign that he loves you because truthfully, he can't consciously think about this. For example, how does he behave when you are sick? does he take care of you, does he cook fo you, When walking down the street, does he stay where the shops are situated or does he stay on the side where the road is to protect you in case any incident happens? This to some people are very little things, but these are subtle signs that he loves you. Honestly, he won't be aware of all these things, but these are just automatisms that he loves you.
3- HOW MANIPULATIVE IS HE - Is he trying to make you do things that you don't want to do? Is he listening to your feelings? Please note that men that treat women horribly never loved them, they were simply manipulating them. They were only thinking about themselves and as a woman, you need to be mindful of this behavior. The question now does he want to change you, or does he accept you the way you are? Does he accept you for who you are or does be use who you are against you? Is he thinking about your feelings, and not just in the bedroom but in other places. Does he take the time to listen to you when you have something that makes you emotional? For example, if you had a bad day and you come home, how does be respond? Does he listen, does he try to understand, or is be withdrawing and saying, some be too emotional. One important thing you need to know is that men love to come up with solutions when they should be listening, but then again, that may just be a sign of him loving you because again, it is just the protection mechanism. He thinks and believes that he just needs to fix it for you to be happy and he doesn't get that you may have just wanted a listening hear.
4- DOES HE TELL YOU THAT HE LOVES YOU - This is a very obvious sign and most times missed. I am not talking about the call or text message I love you. Does he hug you affectionately, and then tells you that he loved you, and you can feel he means it. Does he take the time to cuddle and caress you? How does he behave after sex? This is very important. Does he try to stay awake and kind enough to talk to you? The truth is as a woman you probably have no idea how difficult this is for a guy. His entire body at that time js saying mission complete, initiate shutdown. This is really tough for a man to fight. It is a hormone reaction in our body, so when he does fight this, just to be with you then it is no doubt a great sign that he loves you.
Obviously, the perfect guy doesn't exist, so no man will continue giving you all of this. But when you see these signs repeatedly here and there, then you can rest assured that you are safe.