How do you handle these kind of people?

How do you relate with these kind of people that offend you?

When I said this, I actually meant two different sentence?

There are actually more than 2 categories of people that'll offend you but I'm actually talking about two.

The first one is those kind of people that'll offend you and at the end of the day will realize they've done something wrong and from there they'll apologize. I'm sure I don't even need to ask you how you deal with this type of people as its ideal to accept their apology and move on, right?. And believe me this category is not even what prompted this post, it's actually the second category.

So talking about the second category, how do you deal with people that offend you, knew that they actually did, decided not to apologize, and continue acting friendly towards you? Do you wave it for them, or you hold it against them?

I once found myself in a situation where a friend of mine did something that's very annoying towards me, he actually knew what he did and even my friends told him about it and advised him to apologise. But this particular guy did not even apologize for what he did and ever since then I try to keep my distance. But the funniest part is he's still trying to be friendly when he's aware of what he did and did not apologize.

I don't know if you've ever experienced such before... How do you deal with this kind of person?

Is he trying to make me feel guilty of holding a grudge against him that's not worth it?

I don't know but what I know is, when I offend someone and I realize, I swallow my pride and apologize. If I'm not worth his apology, then we can't move.

If you were to be in my position, what would you do?

Originally written by me here