The psychological complex is not a disgraceful disease but rather a psychological condition that may be the result of previous experiences and feelings that carry psychological emotions that were stored in our subconscious mind in our previous stages of life, perhaps from childhood days.
It is a result of our exposure to pressures, deprivation and difficult situations, although these Problems may have ended a long time ago, but they remain within us, and they can shape our character and behavior, and their effect appears when exposed to similar situations in our lives..the psychological complexes are not one kind, and they do not occur only in the sick and the abnormal, but they are almost general occurrence in every individual in degrees Uneven.
And among the most famous types of psychological contract are the following:
1- The emergence complex:
Love to show and show .. the desire for others to see and know you (even if you will not benefit from their knowledge). This quality fills Facebook, YouTube and forums!
2- The Abuse Knot:
Intransigence in harming and provoking people ... the desire to destroy and distort other people's things ... pollute places ... breakage, dirt, demolition and all that accompanies sabotage.
3- The Jocast knot:
Excess satisfactory love for the other is what causes him distress, as if he is tied ... We find it with the woman who prevents her son from living his life and confirming his masculinity by keeping him by her side .. just as we find it in emotional or marriage relations with parties who restrict their love and extra attention to the movement of the other party.
4- The Cain knot:
Aggressive competition for the same purpose ... and this complex is manifested in the hatred of every competitor, colleague, or person who seems to have outperformed or will surpass the meaning who may resort to aggressive response ... conflict, insult, or even contempt, distortion or mockery. And there are some famous people with it.
5- Kronos knot:
The personality that controls others ... and strives to prevent them from expressing themselves by crushing their personalities under their feet ... appears in the father, the leader, the president, or even the grandfather. But fathers they are the most affected by this Kronos complex.
6- Knot Atlas:
The person who deliberately puts himself under bad conditions or under overwhelming pressures .. And whoever bears things more than his energy until he appears a chivalrous man struggling with fate.
7- Cinderella's knot:
The person who waits for someone who comes and changes his reality for the better ... whether he is male or female. And often the expectant is steeped in dreams and dreams ... and this is the complex of the Arab girl mostly: grn:
8- Peter Pan knot:
A person who remains like a child .. is overcome by childish behavior .. does not wish to mature or assume responsibility .. he finds pleasure in living his life as a child .. with the same mentality, dreams and interests.
9- Lillette knot:
A person who seeks to seduce members of the opposite sex .. He has no interest in establishing the relationship, but only attracting the attention and love of the opposite sex .. The knot is spread between prostitutes or men, a womanizer.
10- Luhringen's knot:
Happiness of others at the expense of self-happiness .. Those who do what makes others happy and then disappear so as not to receive thanks. Their goal is to create happiness and not share it as gods! .
11.Bulpkert knot:
A personality that seeks to fulfill a dream ... or build something ... and destroy it at the last moment of its success and then return everything from the beginning. A cycle that is repeated from the same work as enjoyment of the path of struggle only!
12. Jonas knot:
Withdrawal at the emergence of the first difficulty .. and the search for assistance and protection .. The dependable character is too much.
13- Node of the future:
Fear of tomorrow .. and concern for the future, regardless of the circumstances of life, deny the possibility of any misfortune.
14- Bargadis knot:
And the afflicted with it harbors deep hatred and hatred for everyone who belongs to a certain nationality or sect and to a certain audience .. And if one of them sees him, he looks at him with severe attacks, and he may insult or attack him without the other party showing any reason
15- Ambeducle knot:
The person who perishes himself for the sake of the happiness of others .. But this does not disappear, but imagines himself as a melting candle to light the lives of others! .
16- theft knots:
And the person suffering from it may be a rich person or not needy financially, and despite that you find him stealing trivial things that often have no great value (a book, a biscuit box, a newspaper, etc.) .. you enjoy the act of stealing and take the thing for free in itself. Just
17. Electra knot:
The Electra knot, the father's knot for daughters, is the opposite of which is the Oedipus complex for boys, which attaches to the girl and her attachment to her father, and her hostility to her mother. This is because, at the age of 4 to 6 years, the girl goes through a stage in which she searches for the imagined emotional gratification through a topic. The most important issues around her at that age are the parents, so the girl becomes attached to the father, and she sees the mother as a competitor for her in her father, but she represses this conflict in the face of the parents' threats to her.
Electra was Agamemnon's daughter. She loved her father and returned her mother, and incited her brother to kill the mother.
18. Oedipus Complex:
Oedipus complex, the mother's complex: During the first four years of his life. The child does not like to have a partner with whom he loves, but rather jealousy takes him from those who compete with him in this love. Rather, rage attacks him against everyone who violates his “right” in this love, but his rage generates fear of his father’s oppression, as is associated with a feeling of inferiority and a feeling of guilt for what he carries towards his father of sinful intentions. This contradiction in feelings between his love for his mother and attachment to her and his fear of his father and the desire to exclude him by death, this contradiction is a negative emotions and feelings enveloped by repression, which consists of the "Oedipus complex."
19. Diana's knot:
An inferiority complex that pushes women to excel, behave and behave like a man.
And Diana in the legend, a virgin untouched by a male, behaved like a male, so she would come close to women, help them in childbirth and protect the young She was proud of her virginity, was superior to sex, wore male clothes, and was seen only holding a bow and arrows.
20. Inferiority complex:
It is a suppressed subconscious predisposition, meaning that a person does not perceive his existence. It arises from the person’s exposure to many repeated situations that make him feel helpless, helpless and failure, and when this feeling intensifies on the person, he tends to suppress it, that is, to the denial of his existence, and even to the lack of recognition of his actual faults. However, whatever reminds him of a deficiency, automatically compels him to defend himself.
Among the characteristics of a person with an inferiority complex: aggression, arrogance, extreme pride, pretense of courage, and exaggerated self-esteem. He may try to draw attention to him through false boasting, false ostentation, fabrication, lying, or indecent dressing or pedantic speech.
Among the factors that inflame the child's sense of inferiority and turn him into an inferiority complex, that the child has a physical defect or defect that makes him a minor in comparison to others, or that he fails at his school after a successful period.
And there are many other types of psychological contract, and in the end it must be noted that some contract may be very beneficial to the afflicted and the society and not harmful, and that each of us has a certain amount of contract inside it that may be the motivation behind what we do of our actions.
Now, how can you get rid of the psychological contract?
First :
It must be convinced that it is practically possible to get rid of the negative aspects of the psychological complex, or to alleviate them all.
Second :
To reduce the severity of the negative psychological complex What if you tried to think well about the faults of the node and the internal motives of your country without sensitivity, it is not a shame for any of us to admit that he has a certain complex that he had no hand in its existence, so recognition and calm, neutral thinking first may help us to reduce or eliminate Our faults when we get to know our internal motives.
Third :
The contract, habits and convictions that settle in our souls are the ones who control our lives and our relationship with others, but one of the advantages of the human mind is that it acquires new habits and convictions that may overwhelm the previous ones .. So you start to form new habits to get rid of the faults and negatives of the previous knot gradually and let it be your weapon In that strong will, commitment, persistence and continuing to get used to the opposite behavior .. and with time, you can form a new positive habit that may permanently overwhelm the bad aspects of the psychological complex.
