Handsome and beauty
Many people judge beauty through the outward appearance, such as the elegance of features, or the purity and freshness of the skin, the way hair and its elegance, the harmonious body, the wearing of elegant costumes, and other external features that may make a person distinguished from the outside, but they are not sufficient for absolute judgment. And granting him the attribute of handsomeness and the slogan of beauty, as there is another aspect of personal beauty, which is the beauty of the soul and its purity from within and possessing good qualities and good morals that captivate the hearts and complement the attractiveness and goodness of its owner, and lead him to the love of people and happiness in their company.
Qualities that make someone handsome
There are many distinctive qualities that make a person handsome and attractive in front of others, including the following:
Attention to beauty and external appearance
Outer beauty is one of the standards of handsome that appears on a person from afar, and which both genders differ in expressing it. Girls are feminine and show their beauty in elegant and charming feminine outfits, and other things that show their soft features in a more attractive way and make them attractive and distinctive, while men, in turn, care about their bodies. And with their stays and brawny muscles that they may deliberately show and take care of, to gain admiration and attract others, and that is by perseverance in sports exercises that increase their strength and highlight their manhood, and follow them in elegant outfits that keep pace with fashion and fit with the features of their bodies, and we do not forget personal hygiene and self-care for both sexes and taking care of themselves Which is represented by bathing and maintaining a nice smell, using deodorants regularly, and styling hair appropriately, in addition to shaving, trimming nails, cleaning teeth, and other basic hygiene.
Self-esteem and respect for others
The handsome person is distinguished by a deep inner beauty that elevates him in front of others, and helps him to remain true to himself, away from hypocrisy and hypocrisy. What makes him rise above some ugly qualities that may distort his beauty and goodness, such as envy, hatred and jealousy that may push him to imitate others and forget his features that may show him differently from them, that is, he senses beauty in all its forms, praises the qualities of others and their features and recognizes them without hesitation or fear of distinguishing them from him, He sees himself as beautiful and distinctive in another way, and he sees his true image with transparency and clarity, and he does not try to be another person to win the admiration of those around him, as he is far from artificial, spontaneous, and he lives the moment without planning in advance to obtain a special attraction, or exaggerate his reactions in order to win him The admiration of others and their recognition of his charm and beauty.
The ability to attract others in short encounters
Whereas, some studies conducted in psychology indicate that handsome people are naturally loved and spontaneous, and they do not need to spend much effort to gain the love and admiration of people around them, and that after conducting short meetings that may leave a distinctive and good impression on others, where they find them friendly And distinguished, and some see them as smart in their own way, and this may be due to their excellence in several beautiful qualities that affected the people around them and contributed to the formation of an elegant and nice image of them inside them, including: openness during discussions with them, acceptance of others, enjoyment of good conscience, clear inner purity, and pleasant reactions far away. About the anger and intolerance that might alienate those around them, which made them look at them positively and lovingly and encourages them to approach them more and befriend them or enter into different romantic relationships with them.
Exercise maturity, responsibility and self-control
Awareness and maturity is an important matter in a person's personality that earns him the love and acceptance of others, and makes him a subject of trust and dependence as well, and it is one of the inner qualities that complement his handsome and beauty that is not limited to the good appearance as mentioned before, and on the other hand, it is an essential factor that helps him to fight negative thoughts And support constructive self-criticism that develops his personality and elevates it, reduces the stress that may dominate his thoughts at times, and removes his doubts that may destroy or upset his self-confidence, especially when he thinks that he is a person who is not handsome or unlovable, in addition to many other negative thoughts that shake His beautiful, bright image hinders him from thinking positively and correctly using logic and awareness, which ultimately may alienate others from him and change their good impression of him.
Optimism, passion and love of life
A person's enthusiasm and passion for life plays an important role in giving him a positive, distinctive and beautiful impression, by preserving and respecting his inner emotions, avoiding focusing only on his external elegance, and having the ambition and enthusiasm that makes him a better person every day, through his diligence, perseverance and self-development to reach success, And fighting his weaknesses and focusing on the strengths that increase his determination and determination, which makes him a person to be proud of around him, and they see him as an attractive and distinctive example to be emulated, as true passion and love of life is an indicator that makes him a beautiful, optimistic and full of energy person at the same time.
Tips to increase one’s attractiveness and good looks
It is advised to follow some guidelines and directions to increase one’s good looks and gain the admiration of others, including:
Maintaining an attractive smile: As the smile is a special and powerful language that breaks down barriers that may hinder others and keep them away from the person, and it is an indication of a good mood and a cheerful personality that attracts around him and encourages them to approach him more, and try to understand him and recognize his other good qualities, as well as give them an impression A beautiful and cheerful initial about him.
Positive change for the better: The change is not intended to strive to change the qualities and shape of a person to please others, but rather to make him happy and attractive more than the previous one, as changing negative qualities and replacing them with positive ones indicates awareness, openness, reconciliation with oneself and accepting them with their advantages and disadvantages and seeking to advance and improve them.
Speaking kindly with others: the inner beauty is reflected in one’s kindness, beauty and elegance, his good style and attractive manner of dialogue, in addition to presenting beautifully spontaneous compliments and compliments that love others and show them his good character and his true and noble essence, and this does not mean hypocrisy and exaggeration, but polite talk Within the limits of taste and literature.
