We all don’t understand that in life we should be able to understand that we are born unique ,one way or the other and we are all here for a purpose
Most of us just believe we have to do what people wants us to do and then neglect what we have in mind ,because of what ?the negative influence on you,the pressure and then it gets the better of you .
99%of “humans”are dependent and are touched negatively or positively regarding people’s opinion about them but I will lay more emphasis on the “negative”influence because as it is now there’s high rate of people falling victim to the negatives than positive.
Before going any further what do we understand by the word “influence” because basically we all use it in our sentences Buh there’s high possibility that we do not understand what the word really means.Or do you ??
I guess not ,I’ll help you out
What is influence?
Influence is the capacity to have an effect on the character,development or behavior of someone or something-:-:google
The influence has to do with either ways and that’s positively or negatively.
In a real life sense ,an individual can be forced and at the same time not ,been influenced can be voluntary and involuntary in both cases (positives and negatives).
This act of being influenced is mostly common among teenagers of nowadays where everyone wants to feel among ,where he or she feels his or her mate is more superior or inferior to her or him and then you want to be the person and would do anything to outshine or something like that and you don’t even care about whatever that would happen eventually .
And this is negative aspect ,where something or someone teaches others to do wrong or to make them have bad thoughts about someone or encourages wrong actions and thoughts by example-:-: google
And then the positive aspect is definitely a voluntary thing where teenagers have to choose willingly on which side he or she wants to take and how it’d add value or something good to his or her life
In all,Positive influence is the impact you have on another person (AND yourself) by pointing out strengths and virtues-:-: Google
Well it doesn’t only apply to teens it’s also common to everyone but I feel whether you want to be influenced negatively or positively it depends on what you ,yourself already have in mind ,positive thinker or the negative thinker .we should understand in case of judging in a teen’s case we shouldn’t blame the influencer rather ask what he or she has in mind before then .
I do not know if have been able to pass a valuable information but know that whatever it is you do think if it’d end well impacting in your life or ruining your life .