After human birth, human life is blessed by enjoying the infinite beauty of this world. Being created as a human being is the best gift of the Creator. We take pride in life. Our success in life is significant. This is our identity as human beings, those who contribute the most behind it, in fact, those who have an absolute role - they are our parents. Our arrival in this world has been made possible as a result of their aspirations. So our duty towards parents is immense.
In every religion, parents have been given special status. To the child, the parent is the shadow of the Creator. There is no alternative in the world where parents can be compared. The human baby is born on earth in a very helpless state. His dependence on others lasts a long time. At that time his only hope was his parents. With their care and affection, love, the child gradually grows up, achieves self-reliance.
In the Holy Quran, the duties and responsibilities of the child towards the parents have been described very seriously. In this regard, Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Your Lord commands you not to worship anyone but Him, and to be kind to your parents. If one or both of them grow old before you, do not utter the word 'uh' to them. Do not talk to them in a threatening tone. Rather speak to them in respectful language. Be kind to them and humble yourself. Dedicate yourself to their service and say, O Allah, you are as kind to my parents as you were to me when I was a child. (Surah Bani Isra'il: 23-25). The Holy Hadith says: "Allah is pleased with the satisfaction of the father, and Allah is displeased with his displeasure." Regarding the dignity of the mother, the Prophet (peace be upon him) said - "The paradise of the child under the feet of the mother." There is a mention in Hinduism - Janani is richer than gold. Father Heaven; Father religion; The father is a person of absolute austerity. All the gods are pleased only when they please the father. There are similar provisions in Christianity.
The influence of the parents in the life of the child is above all. For the welfare and serenity of the child, the parents feel boundless anxiety, working and thinking of infinite welfare. Parents accept endless sacrifices to raise their children. He smiled and accepted all the sorrows. How the child will learn to read, how to be happy, will develop into a human being according to human beings, that is what they have. All efforts and endeavors. Raising a child is the guarantee of his greatest happiness. Provisions happen in exchange for the abandonment of parents.
For the happiness of the child, the parents give up many joys, peace and possibilities in their own lives. They do not eat themselves, they eat less and put food in the mouth of the child. After arranging the child's dress, the parents worked hard to put the food in the child's mouth. The child has a smiling face, calm demeanor and a carefree life. So directing is the only goal of parents. The happiness of the child is the happiness of the rhythm, the smile of the child is their smile. Parents spend anxious, sleepless nights for their sick child. In the corner of the child in danger or in their misguidance, the parents get lost, broken emotionally.
The beautiful and successful life of the child is formed as a result of the immense suffering and sacrifice of the parents for the child. The life of a child who does not have the touch of parental abandonment in his life does not become successful. When the child is self-established, successful in the workplace, he is entrusted with the responsibility of caring for the parents. The exchange of love or affection between parents is not possible in any way. Therefore, the price of their sacrifice cannot be paid - with such mental preparation, they have to show genuine respect, devotion and duty towards their parents.
Obeying the orders of parents is an essential responsibility and duty of the assembly in every aspect of life. However, if the pizza mother directs an anti-Islamic activity, the child must obey God's command instead of the parent's. But even in such a situation, the child will not be able to leave his parents.
All orders of parents must be obeyed. Disobedience to them is an unforgivable crime. God will not forgive this sin. On the contrary, he is punished in the world before the destined Shatri in the Hereafter. In this regard, it has been mentioned in the hadith: “Allah forgives all the sins of His servants by His will. But he does not forgive the sin of disobedience of the parents but gives peace to this sinner before death in this worldly life.
Both parents have rights over the child. However, the rights of the mother are more on the child than the father. Once a man came to the court of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said, “O Messenger of Allaah, both my parents are alive, I want to serve them. But whose rights will be realized first? Nabiji replied, 'Your mother. The man asked again- 'Then? Nabiji said, 'Your mother. When he asked the same question for the third time, Nabiji replied, "Your mother." When he asked the same question for the fourth time, Nabiji replied, "Your father." From this it can be deduced that the mother's right is more than the father's.
The main duty of a child is to give a keen eye to all the happiness of the parents. In order for them to be able to live happily and peacefully, the child must keep a watchful eye. No action can be taken or action can be taken in a corner that may hurt them. Especially when they are old, weak, unable to earn, dependent on the child, in this case they need to be more caring. It is very normal to get sick in old age.
The duties of students towards their parents are very important. From childhood to higher education, the main task of the child during the study period will be to make the parents' dream come true. The way parents instruct students to build their lives, they will have to build their own lives. Students also need to focus on their parents' financial situation. That is, the extra money needed during the study should not be done by them. Parents should not go to great lengths to continue their child's education.
Parents are extremely happy with their child's success. The responsibility and duty of the child is to spend his career keeping the parents happy. It is the duty of every member to ensure that a happy smile remains on the face of the parents even in all kinds of adverse conditions of life.