Why we need to let go and move on?

This question is very common and even if we state and hear this again and again we never learn our lesson. We always do the same thing and that is quiet irritating.

Is there something/someone that we are holding but wasn't meant for us?

Like you are the only one fighting the entire battle yet the other one is just doing nothing, tired to put an effort, and worst waiting for you let them go. This is the sound of painful reality that everyone should uphold. No matter if it’s the end of a wonderful relationship, a beautiful friendship or a fulfilling job, it’s never easy to accept that it’s gone for good.

Seriously, when we began to love someone deeply, I tell you this its hard to let go and move on if that person is the one you wanted to be with for the rest of your life. You've almost reached the highest point of desperation hoping that everything will be just fine and expecting that your love from each other will bring back to life.

You dont deserve that! Make a full stop!!

We are not created and born to be beggars of love and attention. It's easy to say those words but it will always be difficult to put all of it into action. I've experienced it a lot of times yet I am tired of living that kind of life. Let me tell you this, don't you ever lower your standard and dignity just for a mere human who gave you nothing but pain and suffering. In fact we are a child of God and we should live and embrace that Identity.

Braise yourself and wake up! Never ever hold on to someone who doesnt even care and love you anymore, remember this, God eliminates people from your lives because He knows what is the best for you, He let you experience those kind of pain for you to become stronger and wiser. So set aside everything and focus on God alone because our life is not a trial and error that you can renew and rewind those moments that have gone passed. Whether we like it or not, change is inevitable. Have faith in Him and set your eyes only to the purpose of the Lord. You may felt that you are not worthy to be loved by someone, but remind yourself that God is telling you,

That you are beautiful,

That you are worth it,

That you are blessed,

That you are forgiven,

That you are restored,

It only means that God loves you so much that He sacrifice His one and only Son to give you an everlasting life. His ultimate and overflowing love is definitely enough already to satisfy us and no human being can surpass that kind of Love, so be patient, dont lose your worth, dont fall into desperation and self pity. People come and go, but God never leaves us and never failed to listen and watch over us throughout the days of our lives.

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”

-Mary Manin Morrissey

LETTING GO MEANS FREEDOM

I am reminding you that,

Don't settle for less because you deserve the best.

Thank you so much for reading.

GODSPEED!

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