Life will be easier if we are able to live it with confidence. The journey to reach a dream will not be disturbed by doubt or low self-esteem. We will also find it easier to focus on conquering the challenges ahead, and can allow ourselves to be happy for a moment when we succeed in proving that we can.

But in fact, we as humans often do things that can actually erode our self-confidence. Whether you realize it or not, those of you who are used to the various habits listed below must stop them right now. Aren't dreams too dear to let go because we don't believe in our own greatness?

Regarding the abilities and performance of others, you are tolerant and kind. But to yourself, you set the bar too high

Maybe you're setting high standards on purpose because of a big head, or your stubborn perfectionism. However, this habit is actually not good for your self-confidence. Because when you fail to meet the too high standards that you have set yourself, you consider yourself to be incapable and lacking. Yes, you have indirectly chanted negative words which are then believed by your subconscious.

In the future you will be less confident and feel not good enough to do anything in life. It's not that you're not good enough, you're just setting ruthless standards on yourself. Take note: you are always more relaxed and tolerant of failure if someone else is doing it. If it's easy for you to forgive others, why punish yourself when you fail?

You hear all the comments that other people have to say. In fact, not everything is good and not everything is right

Often we find some scathing comments from other people who stop by the ear. You will also feel inferior and discouraged. If you can see it from a positive point of view, this doesn't need to happen. Yes, you can change every scathing comment that stops by as your catapult tool to jump higher.

Think of them as people who care about your life. You can't make everyone happy, but at least you don't have to sacrifice yourself to be unhappy because of what other people say.

You were born with dozens of talents waiting to be nurtured. However, you are afraid to try new things and are stuck in the same place

Sometimes you unconsciously also often fortify yourself. The fear that prevents you from trying new things is the iron bar that can make your confidence slacken. You don't want to always say yes to every good opportunity that comes your way. This will of course make you one of the losers.

You are afraid to go off the beaten path and then try something new. When in fact it is a good opportunity to know one's own capacity as well as to strengthen self-confidence. Trying new things will also bring you a myriad of experiences which of course also play a role in forming a new layer of self-confidence.

For you failure is a verdict that lasts forever. In fact, it is only a slap from God so that you are better prepared to advance to the next level

The feeling that has the biggest contribution to self-confidence is the fear of failure before trying. Yes, this fear of failure will eat away at you slowly. Then, over time you will be afraid to try everything first and your confidence will be full of scars.

Try to echo this question inside the circle of your head:

Would you not taste success if you were afraid of failure?

Yes, because failure is present as a risk that is already one package with success. So if you want to be a successful person you have to believe in yourself and go through all the challenges that welcome you on the road to success, including failure itself.

Truly, believing in yourself is a strength that will make you stronger. From now on always trust your heart and do it with all the strength that is in you. Believe me, you can.