Reasons why the beginning of the day sucks isn't the end of your world
Everyone has had a rough start to the day. It's so annoying, it can affect our mood from noon to evening. Actually, you really want to have a perfect morning: wake up on time, not get stuck on the way to school/office, have a luxurious breakfast.
Unfortunately, there are many things in this world that can ruin your morning. Maybe you stayed up all night, so you have to get up late and run like a crazy person to school or work.
Do not worry. In this article, I'll explain why having the start of a bad day isn't the end of your world. Hope it helps save your day.
At least you got through the worst part of the day
On the city bus. You sit next to mothers with a toddler whose head has been dancing from time to time.
You: (small talk) “Ugh, sorry ma'am, my elbow almost hit Adek's cheek. It doesn't really matter, does it, Dek?"
Mother: "So, if you sit down, look at it, Mas! Look, there's a child here!"
You: (inwardly) "Well, who can't be silent since then, really?"
The moms on the city bus get mad at you for no reason? For almost an hour, you squeezed next to a passenger who forgot to put on deodorant? The school security guard reseed and didn't open the gate for you? Remember: no matter how annoying the calamity you encountered this morning, the important thing is that you've been through it.
Don't let your mood be ruined because of what happened earlier. Be proud because you have actually managed to become a survivor. Remember, getting through the morning is the same as getting closer to tomorrow. And tomorrow is the same as the opportunity to start all over again.
The beginning of the day is the best time to accept adversity
Many people think that experiencing negative things in the morning is a sign of an unlucky day. In fact, the morning can be the best time to accept the disaster, you know. If you encounter something unpleasant during the day, it can further break your focus and reduce your productivity. Meanwhile, if you have an accident in the evening, you might be stressed all night and will not get enough rest.
By having an accident in the morning, you can relax more and take more time to calm down. And if you can be patient and calm, the problems you face can be more easily passed.
Not Everything Is As Bad As You Think
Have you ever been told by a friend about his girlfriend who he suspected was cheating on you? When you ask what the basis of his suspicion is, he just says "Well...because he doesn't call me as often as before...in the past it was almost every hour, now it's only once a day." You can only stare. You say to yourself, "Not everything is as bad as you think.
Humans have a tendency to exaggerate small problems, or to think of things that are actually mundane as problems. Before your mood is ruined because of what you experienced this morning, try asking yourself: is everything really as bad as you think? Don't let yourself lose your spirit just because of something that is nothing!
Calamity Is The Twin Brother Of Blessing
If you know how to deal with it, you can turn misfortune into a blessing. Try to remember the various problems you have faced in the past: which one did not build you up? You can complain. Your name is also annoying.
The problem is when you stop at the activity of complaining, and do nothing to deal with it. So, what have you done up until now to address the problem you encountered this morning?
The start of the day that sucks won't make you stop
Well, this is the main point. No matter how annoying things are at the start of the day, they're not necessarily big enough or really weird enough to make you stop being awesome.
Work piled up? Deadlines getting closer? Stressed about meeting your boyfriend's parents? You are bigger than all that trouble! Keep your head up, walk straight, and keep your face and appearance until you come back home later. In this way, you will not only be a survivor of today's problems, but also can practice being a better human being in the future.
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