‘Such people go for a walk two days a week. How many days do you take me out? ’
‘ Such a brother does this, that does that, what do you do for me? ’
It is a very wrong and immature thought. When a man is shortened compared to another man, it goes straight to his self-esteem. And people are only aware of his self-esteem. There are more men. He may be willing to take the whole mountain to book, but he will not tolerate an injury to his self-esteem. It will rise and fall.
One might say, ‘What’s wrong with showing examples of what’s missing in it? Better a poor horse than no horse at all. The wrong idea again. Who told you that the only way to show a deficit is to compare it with others? When you tell him, ‘So-and-so, why don’t you do it?’ He will say, ‘Then you could only marry so-and-so. Why did you marry me? ’
Most of the quarrels and arguments in the world start, but this is usually the case. But, if it was said, ‘Well, can’t we try to go out one day a week? The house is completely out of breath. It would be nice if I could turn around a bit.
Believe me, if you say this, the poor husband will melt away and become one. He will take it as a whim, and he will not understand the fact that he does not really go out with you. But if he hurts his self-esteem by taking the example of a 'good man' next to him, it will become just 'Ghan Ghan and Pan Pan'. When the world is ours, it is best to walk the path of how to do the maximum to maintain peace there. Trying to correct oneself in a way that is harder to forget, or harder for self-respect, does not build the family, it breaks it into pieces.
Hey, @Dreamer Did you liked the article?😁
great idea and great thinking friend