The man came to Omar (may Allah be pleased with him) with the intention of breaking up the family, but when he came he saw that the same problem existed in the house of Amir al-mu'minin. What a beautiful solution to the problem that the man could not bear, Omar Radiyallahu Anhu!
Many of our wives may or may not like things. We may not be able to tolerate any of their habits, any of their actions, their manner of speaking, or anything else. What we usually do then is treat them badly, repeatedly scold them for what they dislike, and at times plan to break up the family! Because what do we stand for? ‘I’m not going with him!’ But isn’t this one, two, three, or four disliked crowd a thousand likes to love him?
The reason I can't stand him now, isn't there a lot of reason to praise him? Can't his activities throughout my world, his joys and worries about my good and evil, his responsibility towards my children, all these things become an expiation for his mistakes? But that should be it. We should understand that we did not marry any made-up doll that we ordered, that it would be the size of our choice, that it would speak as we wished. He is a man of flesh and blood who grew up in a different environment, in a different society, in a different family.
Since no one in the world is self-sufficient, so don't think of him as self-sufficient, accept whatever is good in him with love, all the problems will be solved only if you can correct the mistake with more love! But most of us have no idea what dolls to order in our women's stores. I want the sixteen arts of my desire to be present in the existing tabiyat in him.
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