Once during the reign of 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), a man came to him with a complaint against his wife.
The complaint is that the woman speaks on the face! When the husband says something, he responds twice. Is it at all possible to have a family with such a woman? Amirul Muminin went to the door to seek a solution on how to get rid of this world with a lot of anger, resentment, and dissatisfaction.
But alas! Coming to the house of Amirul Muminin, the man is like falling from the sky! From what he heard in his own ears, the man forgot his grievances and managed to escape. Omar (may Allah be pleased with him) came near the house of Anhu and heard the man - Amirul Muminin's wife was arguing with her husband.
The man thought to himself, "If this is the condition of Amirul Muminin's house, then I have become a magician who has come here to seek justice." The man was leaving, But Omar (may Allah be pleased with him) called from behind. He said, ‘Hey so-and-so, did you come to say something?’
The man mumbled and said, ‘Yeah ... I mean ... yes ...’. - ‘Say, say’. - ‘No, actually’. - ‘There is no need to be afraid. Say it without hesitation. ' - ‘Actually, I came to say that my wife used to quarrel with me every day. It sounds on my face. I don't like it at all. I don't want to have a family with him anymore. I came to you to prescribe one of these. But from what I heard, I felt that I needed to be more patient.
' Laughing, Amirul Muminin said, ‘When I hear it, my wife listens to me too. But tell me, can I let him go? He listens to a little talk, but he takes care of me, cooks my food, does all the work in my family, he takes care of my children. There's one thing I don't like about him, but there are many other reasons why he doesn't like it. Look at them, and love them for them, and forget the rest. '