1.If friendship is broken, it is forbidden in Islam to express any unwanted matter and to harbor hatred
Since friendship is not predetermined and it is difficult to confirm its permanence, special care is required to maintain it. With that occasional expression of love.
Friendships are different in different ways of thinking. Some people think that friendship is the name of being by their side when needed or helping in danger. There is no need for a separate publication for this. Some people think that if you don't keep track of your friends all the time, what good is a friendship?
This is why in the case of friendship, it seems that there is no love for him.
And thinking about it, he puts pain in his mind. Sometimes friendship becomes an unspeakable pain for someone.
Some people think that friend means open book. There is no privacy about this. Friendship is about sharing everything. Two days later, they said, "Friendship means cheating, taking advantage of weaknesses." Some people blame themselves for not maintaining their privacy.
Now let's see what Islam has to say about friendship. Asked how to draw boundaries in the case of friendship.
Like everything else in Islam, there are beautiful instructions here. In a hadith, Irshad has said, "The best thing is moderation in everything." ’- Bayhaqi, Shoaibul Iman: 651
The principle has been stated in this hadith. Moderation is good in every aspect of life. Exaggeration or abandonment - neither is the ideological path of Islam. In the same way, friendship is a relationship bounded by the boundaries of moderation.
So much for the principle. But in the case of friendship or love, there are also specific guidelines in the hadith Nawabi.
Irshad said, ‘Keep moderate love with a friend, maybe one day he will become your enemy. In the same way, keep a moderate enmity with the enemy, maybe one day he will become your friend. Sunan Tirmizi: 2075
Even if the friendship is broken, Islam teaches to have respectful and full trust in that relationship. If friendship is broken, it is forbidden in Islam to express any unwanted matter and to harbor hatred. As betrayal of trust is a sign of a hypocrite, so is hatred a sign of evil character. In addition, if any attempt is made to harm a friend, it should be known that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, ‘Whoever harms, Allaah will harm him. And whoever is afflicted, Allah will afflict him. Sunan Tirmizi: 2005
In short, moderation is needed even in the midst of love. Not to hide friendship or love, not to express love so much - so that the pain is borne.
In other words, in the case of a relationship, I do not want to be so desolate that it later becomes a weapon. Again being so introverted is also detrimental to friendship, which creates distance. Sometimes it is necessary to express that the relationship is beautiful.