What Should be the Ideal Behavior of Parents
Children love to imitate. The closest companions of children in the family are parents. As a result, after the birth of the child begins to imitate the behavior of parents. In addition to the good behavior of the parents, the children also absorb the negative aspects very quickly. For this reason, parents need to be especially aware to develop their children as ideal human beings. What to do to be an ideal parent:
Let Them to Ask Questions
As the child grows older, many questions arise in his mind. She learns to ask questions. In this case, do not bother to answer his question. This will increase the child's interest in knowing, which helps in the emotional development of a child. In many families, children are stopped by threats if they ask questions. The child is afraid to ask questions if this happens again and again. His interest in knowing also decreases.
Avoid Authority
Most parents try to control their children. This should not be the case. If you show too much authority, your child will start to feel inferior and will be separated from you. In later life he will try to dominate others, which is not a good habit. So you have to mix with the child like a friend. If you make a mistake, explain it to him.
Don't Compare
Never compare your child with others. Do not compete in everything. There is no such thing as being the best in everything. It may not be the best in any subject. So don't make fun of any of his failures. Make sure the child has the mental capacity to accept success as well as failure in life. Encourage without comparison. Celebrate your child's small success.
Have Love and Trust
You have 100% love and faith in your child, explain it to him through various behaviors. Listen carefully enough to your child's words. When he realizes that you trust him, he will not do anything wrong.
Avoid Family Quarrels
Family strife sows the seeds of violence in the child's mind. And quarrels prevent the child from building relationships with others. Teach senior family members how to speak respectfully. Never criticize others in front of the child. The behavior of the child depends a lot on how much love and respect the parents have for each other. So try to strengthen the relationship between husband and wife.
Teach to be Confident and Hardworking
Get your child's opinion on various family matters. Give the child the responsibility of household chores little by little. By doing this he will learn to take responsibility. Self-confidence will increase. Will be hardworking. The whole family eats together. Encourage the child to eat with their own hands.
Create a Positive Attitude
Help each other with family chores. The children will also join on their own. Buy books regularly, read books with your child. Give importance to his friends. Encourage good friends. Make sure that the child develops the attitude of standing by the people in danger.
Do Not Indulge in Injustice
Children are like clay. The clay can be shaped as desired. But when it dries, it becomes difficult to change. All the habits learned in childhood become permanent in adulthood. So teach him ethics very carefully. Refrain from committing any crime or taking sides in front of the child. Do not lie to yourself. Don't break the law. Teach discipline, ethics and values.
Teach to be Humble
Don't be rude to anyone. Speak softly in front of the children. Maintain politeness and elegance. Don't spend too much time on the laptop or phone in front of the baby. Be aware of clothing, makeup and food. Ensure child's participation in social events. Ardash spends time with the child. Play with him, take him out for a walk. Children will learn how to mix with different types of people by watching you.
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