How to handle relationships ?

Relationship is a bond between two people. It's not mean that relationship is just for handshake it is mental peace which gives relief to both of the parties. In other words that two people who are in relationship they feel comfortable with each other they find their whole world into each other. It's your daily life habits which determines how long your relations will run.

Respect :

There is no relationship in the whole world which can with stand without respect so respect is a big element which determines how long your relationship can stay. Respect is not only related to men or not only it's for women it's for both of them if one side fails to give respect then relationship comes to its end and it will no further move. Every person deserves to be respected because it is basic ethic. A person when comes in this world he learns to give respect there is a simple formula for respect

"Give respect take respect "

If we talk about the relationship of parents with their child or relationship of a teacher with their students so one can easily say that they are withstanding only because respect is there in the relationship. Students respect their teachers in return teacher also give respect to their students and give them knowledge of the world and opens up the door of knowledge. Egoistic manner consumes relationships but if you are down to earth and have good behaviour it appeals other hearts to interact with you. You good behaviour narrates your family background means if your behaviour is good then people make a judgement that your parents were not good and they did not shape your path correctly but if your behaviour is good then they say that your upbringing is good so you should be good at your behaviour and not should give any point that other people could raise any finger on your character.

Understanding :

A person should have understanding of the situation. Let's goes if one person in both of them is not sensible and not much mature as compared to the other one so the one who is mature should take care of other and should class him/ her and it does not mean that he should discourage him it is also part of respect. Both should know that what they have to say in particular situation.

The selection of words really matter a lot and not only in relationship but even in every conversation because your nice conversation will raise your standard in front of others and will create an image in eyes of them so while speaking we should first analyse what we are going to speak!!

If there are any flaws in any of the partner then one should try to make a valuable judgement which is not meant for degrading the value of next it should be for improvement and next person should take it as positive feedback and should try to do improvement in his own.

Likeness and disliking

I don't relate with this concept that if the liking and disliking match in both cases then it increase the love between both I disagree because I think if both of them have different choices so it will bring new adventures and it will make life interesting . While on the other hand if both partners have the same choices and nothing different so it will make their life boring because they always go for same but if different so it opens new door of exploring different things and have different ideas.

Polite manner :

We should speak in polite way. It makes our personality shines. I was watching a video on YouTube where they were mentioning some points about Japan that the Japanese people are so polite they always speak with each other in low voices and If some one speak loud in street they call their police. we should always try that whenever we are talking with anyone so our voice should be low not so much that next person could not hear us but it should be in polite way that other people feel comfortable when they talk to you.