How to become successful ?

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There are so many people in the world who have done struggle and still struggling to get a stage for which they have seen a dream a long ago ,to reach a destination for which they are paying very hard

Surveys shows that the successful people in the world share some common thing , share some common habits and that are the habits which make them special which help them to reach at the dream destination and when they achieved that stage they become fearful regarding their money regarding their protection and some other things like personal life

The successful people become more conscious about their private life and they have to be because that is their life not of anyone else and not an other person has ownership over their things and their life so people should think about this !

Lifestyle of successful people:-

Now I am going to discuss those common things which are present In every or most of the successful people :

Early risers:-

It is evident through most of the surveys that the people who got up early in the morning are more passionate towards their goals and they struggle for it.

It is not necessary that you ought to be get up early in the morning if you are not doing so , don't take tension or not make it heavy over your mind just try to get up and one day you get up , then it will become your routine and at the end you would be an early riser and then give suggestions to other people that they also should get up early, one thing more if you follow any rule then give suggestions to other only then they will follow when they observe your life style that the person who is giving suggestion or not!

Goal:-

Most of the people , even at my age which is 19 are dream less and living with out any goal , any dream in their life

"Life without a goal is just like a body without a brain "

This quotation I mentioned here only to remind people and here I gave similarity between goal and mind because "goal play the same role in our life as that of mind in human body system "our body work on the command of our mind if we are mindless then we could not follow a right path and may be we stayed somewhere and their are chances that someone can kick us to make his way

The role of goal or dream is very prominent in a person's life because it always gives power to people and it makes a people confident to stay at their position , to achieve something

When a person have a goal there are less chances that he get baffled and he stay behind because has the main object and he know that where he is lagging ,where he has to do work to achieve success.Goal plays the major role in a person life a good a accurate goal makes a person's life easier because he got to know what he has to achieve !

SMART GOAL:-

A goal should be smart I have read about Smart goals in my third year in the books of study skills the smart basically gives a deep mainly here S stands for specific

M stands for measurable

A stands for accurate

R stands for real

T stands for time bound

So it gives a whole definition that your goal should be specific what is the meaning of specific so let me answer this question that your goal should be one clear and obvious there should not be the condition of baffling at all that one day you are choosing a goal and second day you are choosing another one The second thing measurable means that you could measure your goal in a broader perspective it is giving the meaning that you should have a scale over which you can calculate your success level in the way to success just like if your want to become topper in the class and it is your goal so you should work over your books and you should complete your daily work at home and at the university or at college and then you would be able to reach your destination and you will be the next topper of the whole class one thing which matters here is only your hard work nothing anything else.

Third thing about goal that your goal should be real and reliable that it should not be just like a bubble of water or anything which you could not achieve , you have a goal but that goal just can be achieve in the world of imagination your goal should be realistic .

And the fourth thing about SMART GOAL is time bound , that you should set time limit to achieve your goal if you have not set any limit for the attainment of the particular goal then you lag behind or stay behind and it will makes you lazy and you will start procrastination which is also a main reason not to be a successful person on which I will talk in the later part of the article when you bound a time your mind will get notification time to time and you will get reminder from your mind that you have to complete this this night or this day or even in this month means to say time bound goals will keep you awaking and also they are the source of motivation

Types of Goal:-

Short term goal are the goal which you can achieve in a short span of time , like you want to complete a book in 3daysit would be a short term goal , short term goal would be about an hour , a week , few days, a month or may be it can take several months even one year .

If you want to achieve good grades in the first semester of your BS programe then it would be regarded as a short term goal because it is just can be achieved in may be 6 month or seven months

Long term goal:-

Long term goal are those goals which can be completed in long span of time that those goal may take your whole life to complete or may be 10 years to complete

I also want to add an example which is common in almost everyone life that is job problem most of the people pay very hard and they do struggle to achieve job and also to achieve a good job with has a good package one have to study for so many years so that he would be quite able to learn and grasp the skills so here job can be regarded as long term goal

People I hope you got difference between long term goal and short term goal and try to answer yourself regarding SMART GOAL and think about it that your goal is SMART or not if yes then your direction is good and you will definitely one day make your way towards the success and if the answer from your mind is no so don't get bother much just try to fit your goal into the SMART category and then start working on it and I am hundred percent sure that one day you will achieve success in your life .

My teacher once advised me ! That every one will get a job in his life career but the only one will get a high profile rank in his career the one who work a little higher than average work that is the strategy to look prominent in between so many people ! And believe me my teacher advice remained in my mind every time

Do every thing on time :-

Try to do every assigned task on time there is difference between in time and on time , actually some of the people even students who usually delay their assigned task let take an example of a work which they have to submit next Monday so a student think that now he has so many days to complete now he has much time and he only relax his mind and he wastes his time in doing extra things ,try to understand that there is a proper plan time for every task to be done there is time for reading and school first and on the second slot you could play and you can go to gym for staying fit and healthy these both thing in balance will makes your life quite comfortable and this balance if you keep in your life every eye who looks on you will think that you are living a perfect life not a life full with alot of disturbance.so try to manage your time leave all the distractions which are coming in completing the task

There are mainly two type of distractions : the first one is inner distractions like you might get feel to go washroom and you are feeling head pain or you are hungry so this type of distractions are regarded as inner distractions

The other type of distraction is known as outside distraction which is considered as mobile which really a great distraction so there is one way to keep your mobile away from you if you are addicted to mobile then try to set your watch time on mobile if you are spending 6 hours on mobile then set a reminder in mobile for 5 hours daily try to reduce 20 mints and this will help you alot everyone knows that in just one day you could not get rid of this addiction this should be done in a step of series which would be productive

And try to make your time productive if you have just half an hour free always have a book with you and start reading it at least you could read one or two pages in that book and that would be enough dose for your mind.

Persistence and passionate :-

You should be persistent and passionate to achieve your aim in your life if you have aim and you are not spending your mind your thoughts in right direction and you are not making your each second productive then there is no destination for you , you should be purposeful every time even you should done a task daily which is assigned .keep your passion alive and in turns it will keeps you alive it is a both hand procedure actually it is a clap which could not be done by just a single hand means to say you have to work on it and work hard , if you have a dream try to ful fill it as soon as possible and keep in mind that you could not achieve success in just one night success is not like a movie it is your real life and if you mold your life in a good way and you become a man of worth then people will make movies on your life so try to mark your name . Do not think that the people who are successful they have luck try to understand that when your hardwork is there then luck could not mold your way to success because it is your life and you will take decision about your life that what you want in your life

Learn from failure:-

Do you know , that in 🐦 birds there is no such concept of society pressure that what do the society think about me ? If I failed this attempt .... They try again and again do you think that why all the stories are based mostly on birds and animals ? Because they try they try harder even after failure ! And I know that people love to read such stories and they may feel a kind of motivation from lot of stories like slow and steady wins the race . If you are working hard and you failed then there is not your fault you are good but there was flaw may be in your work may be something lag behind try to recognize that thing and work on that , don't think about what people say , people will always say something even if you are sitting on the seat of prime minister because people are sitting in their home and they can just do a task which is worthless and that is talking and gossip about others life and they try to put the person let down .

Try your best , try harder 🏆 trophy will be yours yes yours.

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The more we encounter failure the more we learn

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