1. Some people believe "everything will be all right after we get married".
—Actually only worse.
2. Some people think that “it is enough as long as we are in love”, and they believe that marriage is only a matter of two people; as long as they love each other, they can overcome all difficulties and tolerate all the faults of each other.
—Not true.
3. Commitments made only from emotional impulse.
4. Choose a partner who has a different way of communication from yourself.
5. Some people think “this point of his/hers can't satisfy me, it doesn't matter, I can change him/her”, “he/she will change for me”.
Actually, it is almost impossible to change an adult.
6. Some people choose a life partner based on money rather than inner qualities.
They think that material conditions are the basis of love, which is totally wrong. Whether two people can have a lasting relationship, mainly depends on the inner qualities.
What are inner qualities?
Whether he/she knows how to love, understands others, and tolerates the differences between others and himself/herself; whether he/she works hard instead of giving up; whether he/she keeps on studying hard, etc.
