Under the guise of daily rule, we may sometimes forget to hug our 'naughty' / 'rude' (!) / Restless child.
'You know, you have so much love for everyone ?!'
'You know how helpful you are ?!'
'You know, you're not a very good man!
Take a second. Close your eyes. Think of your child's sweet face.
Think about what is the greatest quality of your child? When was the last time you praised and caressed him for this?
In the midst of this huge creation, Allah has sent him as your child with great care. He's just like her. Very unique. Very special.
Don't forget to pull him close and tell him sometimes - "Do you know how much I love you..
Children have many behavioral and emotional problems because they cannot express their emotions properly. Many times we do not understand their problems. As a result, we have a misunderstanding with children.
Just think! Do you or I teach our children less, teach less, discipline less every day?
Absolutely not! Rather, who knows, maybe I will teach more and more! More bucks! (Sometimes I hit and throw!)
Look at our complaints even after so much! Doesn't it sound the same?
Let's see
"My baby doesn't hear a word!"
"There's no point in studying!"
"Mobile and mobile all day!"
"So angry! What more can I say!"
"Lies in words!"
"There is no discipline in life!"
"You have to give whatever you want!"
"Shut the door shut!"
What do you think? Where is the problem?
Talk about rubbing salt in my wounds - d'oh! Will it continue like this day after day?
Don't you think that these problems will be solved automatically overnight?
If this happens, find out in advance, you are thinking wrong. If you don't fix it, it will never fix itself! It will only get worse by the day! Whether they reach Kaushore or not, you will see how everything will feel without hands!
Our problem is just our child-centeredness - but we should not think like that at all. We need to find out if we need to change our parenting strategies if we don't work to kill them.
And this is exactly what we do or do not know how!
Honestly, the problems of their kingdom will be fixed only when we can incorporate the right strategies into the child's daily routine...