You think you aren't lucky?
There are people out there who can't speak, who can't listen, who can't walk.. what about you? There are people don't have anything to eat, wo don't have a shelter, who have no money to study.. what about you?
There are people who don't have parents or friends.. There are people who have dreams but they can't accomplish because of different reasons.. what about you? You still say you aren't lucky.. You are the most luckiest person if you are living ordinary life.
There are people who have deseases which can't be cure, who have desease and they know they will die soon.. what about you? There are people who are living worse than you or worse than anyone.. There are people living life which you can't even yourself living.. how are you gonna say you aren't lucky?
Accept that you are living way too better life than other and be thanful of Allah for this.. You are the most luckiest person and you are living a beautiful life which some people only dream to live..
Be Happy!
Stop calling everyone your friend..
Not everyone deserve to be your friend. Stop making fake and toxic friends. Stop forcing your friendship if they don't want it anymore. Be your friend first. It's okay if someone broke their friendship with you.. because you don't loose them. they loose you.
Stop getting in trouble and depression because of friendship because real friendship give you happiness not sadness. Sometimes you can also ask them to be your friend.. You don't need to be their friend only.
If you want to live.
If you want to live this life.. If you want to breathe.. You can just try to move on from toxic people. You can chase your dream and if you can't you can dream again. You can ignore judgements or perceptions of other's on you. You can just learn from your past.
You can learn from your mistakes but not take them as regrets. We can stop your thinking for a while and have a good rest. Give yourself sometime and love yourself even through its hard but it's not impossible.
Give other's some happiness.. just give things you don't need anymore to other's who need them. You will find happiness in other's happiness. You can do anything. Just believe in yourself.
Don't be like today's generation.
First read my full post don't say you don't agree with me. This post isn't for everyone but majority of this generation.
Today's generation take things too seriously or too casually. We don't enjoy anything because now everything is on our finger tip. We ruin the concept of love. We are in love with the concept of love more than the person we fall in love with.
We don't know what is friends forever. We don't know what is standing up for other person. We don't know what is honesty and humanity. We want to happy life without even working for it. We are broken people.
Don't be like them......
It's not who I am....
Sometimes I want to treat people like they treated me but it's not the real me. Sometimes I want to make them regret their thinking and movements toward me but I am not that bad.
Sometimes I also want them to feel the pain they gave me but I am not them. I am bearing everything so it doesn't mean I don't feel pain. I want you to realize I am better than you think.
Sometimes I also want to treat you the same but It's not me. I can't stop myself from loving you, caring about you, supporting you. Why can't you see who I am? I am much better.
Life is too short. Express your feelings.
Life is too short. You don't always get same opportunities again. You should always express you love and affection. You should always tell your feelings to other person before it's too late. You never know if you will have time or opportunity again.
If you don't tell them on time you will regret but it will not change anything. You don't know if you feelings and love can motivate them or help them in something. You don't know how much your appriciation mean to them or how much they need it so do it for yourself and them. express your feelings.
Compliments should be about inner beauty and hard work.
One of the singer I like always say people notice my beauty but not hard work. He said i like when someone compliment me about my iner beauty not outer beauty. When someone appriciate his hard work not his face.
People compliment his outer beauty because he is really beautiful on behalf of his country beauty standard. He always come in handsome faces and hearthorbs of the world but he have so many abilities too He is a chef, pianist, beautiful singer, dancer, actor and is good in sports too.
I always notice most people compliment his outer beauty not inner beauty. I just wanna say compliment about abilities, inner beauty and hard work not outer beauty. It will motivate them and will make them happy.
I know this girl who...
I know this girl who is sensitive and over think. Who is scared of losing her love once but her love ones can't understand her. I know this girl who can't forget anything. Any good thing or bad. She remember everyone and everything.
I know this girl who always try to stay strong but inside she is broke. I know this girl who always motivate other's but no one is here for her. I know this girl who have no one but she try to be everyone's someone.
I know this girl who never show her pain but smile.
I know this girl...
To someone who cares about other's too much.
To the one who never let someone feel alone. Who never let someone get hurt. Who is always there to support other's, to listen to them and to give them shoulder to cry. who always smile. Have you ever wonder what their smile is trying to hide? have you ever wonder why they never let someone hurt? maybe they are hurt that's why they never let someone feel sad or hurt.
I want to tell them give yourself some rest too. It's okay to give yourself some attention then other's. It's okay to make yourself happy. I know how you feel.
You are your first priority.
I know we spend our life thinking "if i do this.. that person will not like that" If I say that... what that person will think about me". Why we don't care if we don't do it how will we feel? Why don't we care about ourselfes more than anything? Why we aren't our first priority.
We should also think about ourselves sometimes. We should give ourself some rest from thinking about other's. We need to think about other's but not prefer them then ourselves.
Always achieve your dream.
A boy who always dreamed of being an idol. Who always loved dance and sing. Who loved music. He started dancing and singing at very young age. He was still very young but he was ready to achieve his dream.
He got in the survival show. He showed everyone his good side. He tried his best but in final he couldn't make it. He didn't regret trying but he promised himself he will come again with more potencial and will success.
After lot of hard work he came back in a survival show. He did everything he could. He made it. He get into the group. Right then one judge asked him: After not making it you didn' feel regret but came again. Don't your feel regret that you wasted your time or if you have done it before you wouldve made it before.
He replied: I don't feel regret because in both times I worked hard and showed my best but after first expreience. I get much better than before. I don't feel regret that I wasted my time because it was my dream and I have to achieve my dream no matter what.
Just believe in your self.
A boy who's mother and father died when he was 7 years old. No one help him when he needed money, someone's love and happiness. When he needed someone's support. He was a little boy but no one cared for him.
He then promise himself that he will help others when he grow up and will show everyone that how good he is and make them regret what they did. when he was 10 years old he started working at a little shop after he got some money he started working at a big shop.
he got more money he opened his own shop he work hard and make a lot of money after that keeped workers to work in his shop. After so many difficulties he achieved his dream and maked them regret what they did now he showed everyone how special he is.
Moral:
You can do anything if you believe in yourself and nothing is impossible you can achieve your dream if you work hard for it. Go for your dream leave toxic people and enjoy your life with happiness. Always help other's you will be helped too.
We can't meet everyone's expectations...
Our family, our friends and we ourself have different expectations for us and you can't meet everyone's expectations. It's not bad because you are a human. The thing that matter's is meet your own expectation because everyone just expect more..
Try to do more than you can do.. Try to meet other's expectation but don't try to hurt yourself for this. You can do better than anything. Don't try too hard to meet their expectations that you loose yourself..
I know being understandable and helpful also hurt us sometimes.
I know when not hurting your friend you hurt yourself how it feels. Sometimes we understand or maybe just try to stay quite to make someone else happy.
When we understand our friend that they don't want to talk or go with us. We are hurt but we stay quite. I know when we try to understand and help our family we still don't reach their expectation and that hurts.
You know sometimes asking them why? saying them no isn't bad too.Not hurting them but not hurting yourself too is not bad. You know sometimes not being understandable is not bad too.
Stay away from fake friends...
I heard this story somewhere and I really liked this story so I wanna share it with you guys.
Two friends were exploring jungle at a trip from school. They suddenly saw a bear and they both were frightend. First friend who knows how to climb the tree quickly climb tree without thinking about other friend.
The other friend who knows that bear doesn't eat dead bodies quickly fell on the ground and held his breath. The bear came to him and sniff. The bear thought he is dead and go away.
First friend came and asked what did bear whisper to you?
The other friend replied: He told me to stay away from friends like you!
Moral:
Naturally when we are scared we care for ourselves as well as our love ones. Stay away from these types of toxic and fake friends. If they only care about themselves then they aren't your friends.
Do good for other's so you will get good too.
A constructor was going to retire so his contractor asked him to make a last house. He was not paying full attention that's why he didn't made a good house. He didn't care who was going to live and how he just wanted to complete his work.
After he completed his work, his contractor came and give him keys of the house and said it's your gift from me. Constructor was surprised and thought if he know's before that this house belong to him. If he had only know he was building his own house he would have made it so differently. he would paid his all attention.
Moral:
People who do good to others always benefit from it. If he built that house in a good way, he would get a good house, but he built a useless house and he got the same house, so always think good for others. Think good for other's so that you can get good too.
Your value will be still the same.. (story)
I heard this story somewhere before so now I am thinking about sharing it with you guys.
A motivational speaker wanted to give example so he suddenly ask everyone who want 1000 rupees. All hands go up then he crumpled the money and ask who still want it? All hands were still up. He then crumpled the money more and ask who still want it. Every hand was still up.
Then he said i crumpled the money but everyone still want this because the value of money is still the same as before. No matter how much I crampled the money the value of money will still be same. There are people who crampled you more and more but don't care about them because they can't decrease your value.
Moral:
You are beautiful and unique in your own way. Your value and importance is very much and you need to know this. No matter how much someone crampled you your value will still be same. Don't care about them because they can't decrease your value.
I feel every little thing..
It's my weakness and strength at the same time. You know how? Let me tell you how this can be my weakness and strength too.
I feel every little thing this is my weakness. I can be really sad at a really small thing even if you are kidding I can think maybe you really think that about me. I can be depress and keep thinking a lot of little things that happened.
I feel every little things this is my strength because i can be happy at a really small things. You can make my day by a little thing. If you say a little line good about me i can be happy whole day after hearing this. I can think and be proud about my little achievements all time.
I want a happy life....
I don't to be special but i want to be happy. I don't want fancy life but i want loveable life. I don't want cheesy partner but i want the one who will never leave me. I don't want just friends but I want those who will not leave me for someone better.
I don't want so many people who pretend to love me but I want those which i can be myself. I want those who help me improve not tell me my flaws. I just want a happy life.
Everyone have a life story....
We are heroes of our story and we write our own story. Don't give pen of your story to someone else because no one can value your story as much as you can. write your story as you like and beautiful as much as you can.
you can make other people just sentence and if you want you can make your story without them because you don't need them. you can make your beautiful story with yourself and be happy.
you can make your story without your past and regrets. you can stop your thinking. You can write a beautiful happy ending.
I know how it feels....
I am not gonna say it's okay to feel what you are feeling or a good day will come too. I know how it feels when you feel stuck like that...
When you feel left out even in your own group, when your good friend left you for someone. when you feel no one love you or need you. When you can't live your life as you want. When you feel stuck at everything. When you feel sad and you wait for good moments. You are waiting for right time.
Don't wait, stand up and face this world with smile. If you wait, right time will not come... just make this time your right time... you know you are the only one you need. Love yourself the way you want to feel love.
We don't heal....
We stay awake thinking about our past or regrets. We cry for little things. We can feel sad at little things and we can be happy at little things too. We change mood in little time. We can smile without showing any emotion but that smile hold's many things.
we cry for friends who have changed but we will never take them back. We are childish and sweet but we can angry and savage too. You only see what we show you so don't try to judge us.
We might not look that good or fun but try us give us a chnace. You will like us. You better try us.
Maybe I am bad at everything...
Maybe I am bad at making true friends that's why I have so many friends but no one is there for me. Maybe I am bad at telling how much I love them that's why no one get it even through i try to show.
Maybe I am bad at keeping everyone happy that's why no one is happy from me and with me. Maybe I am bad at being as everyone expect me to be that's why people are disappointed at me. They expect more from me.
Can someone understand i only smile and take everything you say in fun but I have feeling too? I also feel hurt. I feel hurt when I see everyone having love ones, friends and being happy. I also deserve this. I know no one's life is perfect but I just want to be happy for sometime without thinking.
Something has changed....
Now whenever I ask you anything you don't want to tell me. You become cold. You always fake smile now. You don't talk to me like you used to do before. We are not as good friends as we were.
I still count on you but whenever I need you. You are not here. You have good friends but you still say you don't have friends. You know it hurts whenever in front of me you say someone else as your friend as your good friend.
I never pretend and i will never but I will never force you to keep this friendship. If you don't want it then let me go. I don't want toxic people in my life. I was always your friend, i always helped you and still i will.
when our friendship ended...
It was nobody's fault or it's just I don't want to blame you. We didn't meet each other again, we never message each other again. I don't know why but we didn't talk to each other again.
When we accidently meet each other at a shop. We smiled at each other and turn away. We or maybe I miss you so much. I remember so many memories. I tried to get rid but I couldn't.
I don't want to accept but it is all past now. maybe I should forget everything and move on.. I know not everytime things work out as we want. We were really good friends back then.....
Don't look down to other's when you achieve something.
I heard this story somewhere. I wanna share it with you guys. I don't know if you already know about this story or not.
This story is about a blind girl and his fiance. She started to hate everything because she couldn't saw anything. She always say that i want to see the world to her fiance.
One day, someone donated her eyes and she was able to see. When she opened her eyes she saw her fiance is blind too. The boy asked her after seeing I am blind will you still marry me? The girl said no... and left him..
After some days girl received a letter from her fiance saying "Take care of my eyes". Next day the girl was going somewhere and had a accident. She loose her eyes again.
Moral:
Don't look down on other's when you achieve something because it can be because of them too. Don't change because of situations, situations can change again. Love to someone's heart not looks. If you break someone heart's you can't be happy too.
Defence day!
As you all know today is defence day. A really important day for pakistanis.
In 1965, India attacked pakistan. Pakistani soldier's was shocked seeing that india attacked them without announcement still our soldier's bravely fight. They sacrifice their lives for pakistan, for us. When their was no announcement they didn't know they are going to have war they were still ready and fight bravely. we won because of Allah and our souldier's.
Pakistan won the war by the grace of Allah. We celebrate 6 september to encourage them and give tribute to them. We all are really proud of our soldier's. I pray for them and wish them luck in their life.
We need more humanity.
I saw a video some days ago in which a man saw a little girl begging. He asked her to not beg. she said she don't have money to work or eat. The man give girl some things to sell and give her some money to eat.
In video he didn't show his face becuase he didn't want fame or something. He wanted other's to help poor people. some days ago i saw some pictures where many man's took a picture giving a box of food to an old man. The old man was so ashamed. They only want fame.
Why do you help someone if you aren't sincere? Sincerely help someone even if the help is small. You will get more than you give someone.
how can someone do it?
I saw a video yesterday where the man was beating his mom and sister's for property. I have seen many videos and news about it. People beat or kill others for property or money.
Why? Don't they believe in their destiny? you will get what you have in your luck even if you don't do these thing's and if they aren't in your luck then you can't have it even if you do these things.
They don't love their love ones? How can they do things like that to their own family. We can't even think about it. They aren't human's. They don't have humanity or heart.
There are still people who love other's. Who do so much just for stranger's and there is people like these who don't have humanity also exist.
Happy Teacher's day!
As you all know today is teacher's day. We all love our teacher's. We often miss our old teacher's.
Let me tell you something
We celebrate teacher's day on 5 september in honour and appriciation of our teacher's and in india they celebrate teachers' day which is dr Radhakrishnan's birthday.
They call this teachers' day because he said " teacher's should be mind of the city" he believed in teacher's so because of him we started making teacher's day.
We should appriciate our teacher's because they are the one who made us what we are today. We should respect them as our older's and teacher's because they are really important part of our life.
@Sumema
