Women- Social Psychology

‘No one is born a woman or a man: social environment, customs, culture gradually make a child a woman or a man.Social psychology is the instantaneous thoughts, opinions, emotions and perceptions that arise in the minds of the people every day, through which the position of the people in the society is reflected and which drives them in performing their social activities. In every class-exploited society, each class, group or level has a certain position and a certain position and certain interests, as well as ideas, opinions and emotions. These are his social psychology. In capitalist society, the mentality of owner and worker is not the same, the psychology of men and women is not the same. From the beginning of civilization, women have been considered as a neglected animal. This is why many people say that when the world was uncivilized, women had happiness, power and identity. He was the jewel of the family and society.

Ever since the beginning of civilization, women have been gradually thrown into the dustbin of family and society. In this male dominated society, the birth of a girl child is almost undesirable. The patriarchal social psychology works behind this condition of the girl child. There is a feeling in the family and society that

1. Daughters are not the main earners of the family;

2. It is unreasonable to spend on his health, education, nutrition as he is not the main earner;

3. The bride has to look her best during this time, because of posterity more than anything else.

4. In the future, children will support their parents;

5. Girls are less talented.

Today's girl child is tomorrow's woman who is presented in the society as a woman involved in various social customs and attitudes. These customs and attitudes have been inculcated and nurtured by our society since time immemorial. These social norms not only oppress the girl child, but also weaken her family, mentally and physically. Women have to pay the compensation for ages. Most people in our country are religious. Religion is the belief of the human heart. The argument here is meaningless. The relationship between men and women changes in the early stages of the emergence of private property. Women are still known in society as parasites due to lack of property rights. Not only that, in many cases girls are still considered as objects or products. So it is not his personality, intellect or thinking but his physical appearance that is magnified. Saratchandra writes in his essay ‘The Value of Women’ _ ‘How much he does not get service, affectionate, chaste and sad Mona. That is, how much happiness and benefit will come to people by taking him. And the extent to which she is Ruposhi ’i.e. the extent to which she can keep the lust and instincts of the man focused and satisfied.

As Simon de Beauvoir points out in his "Second Sex", the bourgeoisie clings to the old principle that private property guarantees family cohesion. But women have no right to that private property. All the laws of our country are governed by the constitution, but religious law is followed in the case of property rights laws. In the society of this country, it is thought that marriage is the ultimate destination of wealthless girls. The religious law says so. Not only does a woman's address change with marriage, but her identity also changes; In most cases up to the name. And it is through this change that the dying woman has to accept the crisis of identity. Besides, men do not have to change anything. Since the inheritance of property needs to be ensured from generation to generation through male offspring, social psychology cannot accept the birth of a daughter naturally, nor welcome it. In our country's families, this condition is at the stage of psychosocial disorder. On the other hand, in today's age, even when a woman's face turns black, they know that a girl is growing in her womb. Because they still want to make the man of the house happy, they are afraid to see the black face of the man of the house. The psychology of women in crisis of identity is formed under the influence of masculinity. In the oppression of men, women and men learned to say ‘yes’ to all things without any consideration. He understood that if he did not say 'yes' to all the deeds of men, he would not exist in this society or family. As a result of this system, which has been practiced for thousands of years, the mental development of women has become dull.

Without any introspection, women believe that they lack competence, lack of intelligence, lack of efficiency compared to men. As a result, the development of women's intellectual creativity is hampered. From this it seems that the men in the family are the bourgeoisie and the women are the proletariat. Men's relationship with women is actually a relationship of subordination. Containing the continuity of creation sustains the world that woman is in her overall situation, her growth process is very horrible. In this system of extreme discrimination, not only the development of women's mentality, but also the development of the entire civilization is bound to come to a halt. A concerted effort is needed to make sense of the civilization that has developed today through the creativity of many men and women over the centuries. In order to move this effort forward, we must first ensure that all children have equal rights by pushing away gender inequality. This work is not possible in any isolated initiative. Now it is necessary to come out of the stereotypes and adjust the outlook of the entire state system, to force the political parties to practice equal rights outside the conventional culture. Above all, it is time to take a comprehensive program across the country to change the mindset of the society and the family.

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