What is failure? Although it may seem like a negative and bad thing at first glance, it is actually an urgent thing without which our life is not complete. Success is worth so much because there are failures. The ladder of success is built through failure. Behind the success of all the famous successful people in the world lies the story of early failure. In some people's lives, major failures have been the cause of success. Also in most cases after failing we know how to do the job to be successful or to be successful. This means that the example of success cannot be concluded by overcoming failure.
So let's talk a little bit about how to learn from failure.
Don't give up
We often lose our breath a little. In most cases, people actually fail the first time but then succeed. But some people give up a little. Once he fails, he loses the courage to move forward. This requires sticking. But sticking does not mean that this is the first time I want to do the same thing over and over again. In the meantime, if I change the type of work and the work or both, maybe I can get new results.
Search for causes of failure
Many times when we succeed or fail in something, we try to forget it by accepting it as our own destiny or destiny. As a result, what we have failed to do is completely hidden and we keep making mistakes again and again. Repetition of mistakes is like a prisoner in a cycle of mistakes. We should look for the exact cause of the failure. Therefore, if there is any deficiency, it should be filled and if there is any mistake, it should be corrected for the next time.
Not blaming others
Another very common problem we have is blaming others for the cause of our own faults or failures. We say I had this problem because someone did this or I didn't do this because I couldn't do this. .We don't think that if I did this, I would be able to do my job in an alternative way. We forget our responsibilities and powers. This culture of blaming each other can sometimes ruin a relationship that is normal and beautiful. So isn't it wise to correct one's own mistakes before finding fault with others?
Do not be discouraged under any circumstances
Some people get a little frustrated. In times of danger, I lose consciousness and lose my duality. The result is failure after failure then failure again. A cycle of failure is created. Remember, I failed today to succeed tomorrow. And through failure there is an opportunity to learn and practice tolerance, patience etc. For these reasons people are humble and humble. And these two things make people dear to each other. After becoming this favorite, his community also provided him with the logistics to succeed. In this way a person can come out of the circle of failure.
Be careful in advance
In addition to success in any work, failure is also a reality. So what if it just fails? Even if you fail or give up, it will not work. What is the success rate of any work? This failure rate can be reduced in many cases by knowing in advance what controllers do not allow the task to succeed or fail. And in some cases it is thought that the reasons for failure may not arise. But the best thing is that if he fails, he needs to be prepared in advance for how to handle it. Earlier warnings would have helped to deal with the failure.
It is not just a matter of learning from one's own failures. We can also learn from the failures of others. And the wise do.
Thank you....
With @TheRandomRewarder , @georgedonnelly and @ErdoganTalk sir.
Yes we have to learn from failure.