The current social system and social catastrophe

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The need for old age homes in our country has not yet been realized, but there is no guarantee that it will not happen soon. Now talking, why this old age home? Old age home for whom? Needless to say, this is for the elderly. Although the sufferings of the elderly, especially the widows, at pilgrimage sites like Varanasi-Vrindavan in India are almost non-existent in our country. Even if it is privately hidden from public view. Not much is seen in public.

On closer inspection, it appears that those of us who are or are about to become older are partly responsible for the context of this condition. The current social system is somewhat responsible. The rest is environmental and situational factors. The collective social system has been broken for a long time. Goodbye values. Human subtle feelings have long since disappeared from our lives. We are living in the illusory dream of world victory in the face of globalization. Meanwhile, no one is looking at the current in which our house is going to be washed away, we are going to be homeless. Much like that one-eyed deer.

There were many good aspects of the collective social system. The whole family was under the care of the eldest person of the family. The responsibility for everything, good or bad, rested with the head of the family. All the other members followed his instructions. As a result, certain rules and regulations were maintained in each family. There would be a certain limit of conduct, rules of usage, standards of conduct. Even if the income of all the members of the family was not equal, there would not have been any problem in the family of the prudent elder. Worldly happiness and peace would not be too much of a hindrance.

But everything changes according to the environment. The human mentality is no exception. Peace is usually maintained in a family as long as the mentality of all the members remains fairly the same. Peace and order is disturbed only when another member of the family comes and joins the family. The mentality of two different families may not be the same. It is not uncommon not to. Smaller interests have to be sacrificed for the greater good. If you want to get something, you have to give something. There is an inexhaustible joy in giving, there is contentment, there is a heavenly feeling. How will he understand the dignity of that heavenly bliss if he never gave anything to anyone? To understand the feeling that is needed, where is that subtle feeling today?

We have wrapped ourselves up like snails to look after the well-being of our own family members. I moved away from the hustle and bustle of the joint family to a quiet corner. As a result, we have inevitably become much more selfish. The mind is also getting smaller. The children of all the members of the joint family study and play at the same time, share the same food so that deceit, meanness, selfishness cannot come and settle down in the family, which is very much lacking. A linear mentality has developed here. This mentality was not created in one day. It has been in limbo for a long time and we are the ones who gave birth to it. Our children have learned from us how to sacrifice the greater good for the sake of the smaller; How to take something without something. The conflict of affection and superiority is completely absent here.

As a child, our needs were minimal. I was satisfied with what I got. At least I tried to be satisfied. Like the adults, I was trying to stay within a distance of a hundred hands. But there was no lack of respect and devotion.Perhaps our subconscious mind was born out of a lack of love, affection or affection from adults, especially fathers, mothers, grandfathers, grandmothers or elders, and a feeling of extra affection and indulgence towards our own children. The results have been but poisonous. Going to build Shiva, we have built Badar without our knowledge. If you give more than you need, it is better to say, if you give more than the capacity of the pot, it will fall off. That's exactly what happened to our children. As soon as the demand is met on or before the demand is met, the value of the thing they get decreases and soon becomes worthless. Then one day that is giving, that is, the importance of the donor has gradually decreased and has become worthless to the recipient. An invisible wall of distance has gradually been created between the interrelationships and the closeness. As a result, the loneliness and helplessness of old age has now appeared and at one time the thought of an old age home unknowingly began to revolve in his head.

Let's talk about the effects of the environment and the situation. Science has given us a lot but the value of what it has taken is immense. Thanks to science, today we can see the world at home, communicate, exchange with any end. In fact, the whole world is in our hands today. Let's talk about TV. Through television, we are reaching out to any place of our choice, where we are immersed in the beautiful sea of ​​entertainment.

TV was once a symbol of so-called dignity. Today, however, that nobility is no longer maintained. But it is still going on and hopefully it will go on for some more time. Whether it happens or not, the damage is done and it will continue for many more decades or centuries to come. I don't know who introduced the word 'stupid box' or when, but the naming is successful in one word. Sitting in front of the stupid box, we have become really stupid. Absolutely aquatic fools. But with the help of TV, we are becoming more and more anti-social. Becoming selfish. I hope one or two examples will not be irrelevant here.

Searching for neighbors, friends or relatives is part of the social norm. In the previous days, exchanging news with expatriate relatives and friends through letters was an excellent method. The relevance of the letter is multifaceted. With the research, the handwriting of the writer is getting better, the possession of the language is coming or increasing, the thinking power is increasing, the thinking power is improving. Letters are a reflection or mirror of the mind. The letter is a document. Many future problems are solved through letters. In many cases many big crimes are also caught through letters. Letters are a major source of government revenue. Unemployment problem is solved to some extent. There are many other benefits of such a letter. But sadly, the text of the letter is almost gone nowadays. Instead, almost everyone is doing the letter work over the phone. The work is being done quickly and directly, but we are all being deprived of the other benefits that are associated with it.

This time I am coming in the context of TV. According to the traditional social customs, I may have gone to the house of a neighbor or a relative or a friend to inquire. After most of the evening. I knocked on the door or rang the bell. The householder or someone else opened the door, there was a serial playing on the TV inside - the eyes of everyone present were fixed there. All of a sudden there was a look of annoyance on everyone's face when I arrived, but I had to say with a hypocritical smile, 'Oh, you? Come / come, sit / sit ....And then, in the midst of elusive conversations, the eyes go to the TV screen. Meanwhile, my condition? Damn! That's why I came. The end of the unprepared and the fool. I live when I leave. Maybe I got up to go. The householder said, "Will he go?" Well, come on. Today, however, did not come right. And come one day ... '. Maybe he says in his mind, if he doesn't come, he will live. Of course, like everything else, there are many exceptions.

Until the late eighties of the last century, reading books was a great way to relax or even go to bed. There were very few children who did not read the story book under the reading book. Sirius books as well as detective stories were very popular. A lot of detective stories were sold like so-called hot cakes from the writings of almost all the best Bengali fiction writers. Shashadhar Dutt, the father of the Mohan series, was able to build a huge building with the help of his Mohan series, though his hero's luxurious palace 'Rama Prasad' in Baliganj was nowhere to be found. Starting from Sarat Chandra, Sanjeev Chatterjee, Binoy Mukhujje (Jayabar), Kaikobad, Abdul Karim Sahitya Bisharad, Nazrul Islam, all the famous writers' invaluable quotations were returned orally. But nowadays the practice of reading books with the help of TV has almost gone up. The gift of books at weddings was one of the most sought after items in modern times. This loss is very painful.

Speaking of which, what are we watching or enjoying sitting in front of a stupid box for hours on end playing with twelve eyes? As seen in almost every TV series nowadays, the first few episodes have great exciting performances. But then? It seems that there is no rubber in the world that can compete with the rubber of TV serials. And the content? I feel better not to say anything. The storytelling, presentation, direction, decoration, etc., who are entrusted with the task, the clever crew finds a great foolish spectator like us in front of the foolish box and makes us dance as they wish. We are re-acting like fools. Some clever dishonest traders are taking advantage. These unsavory and ugly incidents are being reflected in the daily life of our society. Always. There are Hategona serials which can be enjoyed without any hesitation by the whole family sitting together. Necessarily-unnecessarily all such scenes are presented which are read with discomfort as usual. It's a shame to talk about decorations. The misery of the girls' attire in particular causes severe eye pain. One thing that comes to mind is that in our country, there is such a lack of clothes to cover the decency of girls? There was nothing left but shame and decency. Decoration is a very fine art. But the producers of TV serials have made the display of the body the main goal by shortening the length of the clothes.

Now let's talk about mobile culture. Before saying anything about this, it is good to say that I do not have any disagreement or disagreement about the need for mobile. Questions or Doubts Is there really a need or rationale for all those who are using mobile just here to use it? Although the use of mobile devices has been warned in various newspapers and magazines for a long time, we are accepting whatever the West is rejecting because it feels bad. Without going into that discussion, I just want to emphasize the need for young children who have not yet completed school-college. Do all of them really need to keep personal mobiles? This question is coming to mind for a good reason. Lately, it is often seen that there are various fatal accidents in mobile hands. In particular, two-wheeled vehicle occupants are even dying due to this device. The reason is lack of concentration. The thing that is most needed to drive a car is that concentration. But talking with a mobile in hand is bound to distract the mind, the inevitable result of which is an accident. We who are the guardians of our children, are we knowingly pushing our dear children to the brink of death by satisfying their unjust desires. But we regret why we did it after the accident!

By the way, the creator of another real problem but we, the parents. It is better to say it openly. At the same time, the children who move around may not be able to afford to buy a mobile phone or run ancillary expenses. Those who do not have it fall victim to inferiority complex. It's real! And in order to get rid of it, many people fall into the trap of temptation even though they know it is wrong. In order to maintain his self-respect with his friends, he does extremely disrespectful things. Parents are forced to choose the path of embezzlement without thinking about the financial inconsistency.

The same thing applies with the use of two-wheelers. We, the parents, are pushing the young children to face their dangers. That religion of that age. Intoxicated children in their youth do not want to accept anything called fear. As the saying goes, whoever holds the steering wheel despises everyone except himself. Nowadays, thanks to the generosity of the government and banks, cars and motorcycles have become readily availableTwo-wheelers are no longer two-wheelers these days. Maybe that pedestrian is me-you-us. .Its responsibility is not less than ours. Understanding good and bad requires a certain amount of time. In order to achieve power, that is, to do something before maturity comes, he has to pay the price of indecision.

People's mentality also changes according to the environment and situation. Today we have also changed. Many have changed. Our values ​​have changed. We are all dying in a whirlwind of extreme unprincipledness. Justice and values ​​have never left our lives. We, our parents, grandparents, siblings, friends are working in schools, colleges, offices and courts and they are getting their due remuneration in return for their work. But why is there no work anywhere today without money? Children cannot pass the exam without a private tutor! If you go to a good school-college, you will not get access without donation. We are wandering in the world of thousands like this. But surprisingly, it is true that even if it is not in the mind and soul, we accept all this. Being forced to accept. Because there is no way not to comply. There is no cure. Who will remedy? Where the protector is the eater, the hope of remedy is nonsense. The word of judgment weeps here in silence.

By the way, the whole thing remains incomplete without saying one more thing. The role of mother is the main thing in making children human. Because the child's attachment is more with the mother until he has his own senses before birth. How long do the children get the father? As a result, the mother has more dominance over the child. Indulgence in some cases. In this situation, many mothers give a little indulgence to their children in order to hide their children's faults from the father's rule. However, it must be admitted that today's mothers are much more diligent and dominant in everything from their children's education to dance-song or music education, drawing etc. The result of this domination and indulgence is not very good. Little by little a mental distance is created in the mind of every child of the father, especially the rising boys, and in time it becomes huge. The inevitable result of which is the disagreement and dispute of the son towards the father.

Later, this wide emotional distance is also created and by using these things in a clever way, some political guardians, temporarily fascinated, on the other hand, go astray and try to brainwash their children, who are the biggest parents in the societyClass enemies.Therefore, the first and foremost task would be to eliminate this type of enemy. The result is what is happening. In this situation, if mothers are a little more careful about making their children human, then the solution to today's burning problem is possible. There will be no need for an old age home. Because today's youth will be old tomorrow. It is foolish to think that this problem will be solved one day. But little by little, it can be expected that one day it will happen. And we all live with this hope. Isn't it ?

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