Humans have been living together since their inception as social creatures. Like other members of the animal kingdom, man is afflicted with disease, and fear engulfs him. The biggest fear that people have is the fear of society. When we do something, first we think about what society will say, what society will think. To give an example, we say that the condition of this society is very bad, the society is being destroyedWhen children do badly in exams or make a mistake or commit a crime, the main concern of parents is what society will say to them, how they will show their face in society.
I always think that if I don't get a good job, if I don't get rich, society won't pay meBut have we ever thought for a second what is society? Or I wanted to think what does society actually mean? Everyone knows the answer - no, I didn't think, or didn't want to think. Or maybe we didn't think it was something to think about. How can a child who grows up with the fear of an eight-legged society think about society? In fact, society has no legs.
My society is standing on your feet. You, me or we are not a society together? Is society a separate entity? Did anyone make you stand in front of an alien creature with eight legs and say- “This is society. It will be feared. ” No, didn't say. No one ever said. There is no reason to say. Because there is no such thing as society. I am the society, we are the society. Society thinks what we think. What we think, so does society. In fact, society does not think in any way, we think. Don't think about fifty years from today.
The triumph of women's education today, was it fifty years ago? Or 100 years ago? Was it like today? No, it wasn't. No one could have imagined such a change. But those who could have gone ahead, have become memorable in history. 200 years ago, people thought it was more important to earn money than to study. But today! If a father sends his child to work at that age without teaching him to read, will anyone give him a garland around his neck? So where did society go 200 years ago? In fact, 200 years ago, people valued earning money more. Today's people don't think so, so today's society doesn't think so either.
There was a time in Hindu society when a girl would become a mother after 10 years. Back then, every parent was worried about marrying their daughter 10 years ago. And today's context is in front of everyone's eyes. No father even thinks of marrying a 10-year-old girl. Because the attitude of the society has changed, people will say it is bad.
Today's competition for GPA 5 or Golden A + is so much more about what the next doorman thinks, or what Mr. Tamuk Saheb in the neighborhood says, than about the children's future. That's probably why every time after SSC, HSC exams, "Student commits suicide for not getting GPA 5" - the headline in the newspaper. He has been taught that life is worthless if you don't get GPA 5.
But no one taught him that certificates are not everything in life. The boy who is supposed to take the helm of the society when he grows up is losing the courage to survive for fear of the contempt of the society. A few days ago but it was not. Today we are saying that life is worthless without GPA 5. Children are being killed at the hands of an invisible object called society. Society does not change, it is changed. The society of that age thinks in the same way as the one who is victorious.
Just as there is no difference in society, we are the society, so we have to change this system called society. Society is a reflection of our actions, attitudes, behaviors, beliefs and disbelief. If we are good, society will be good. If we do something good, something good will come out of the society.
If we change, the society will change, the society will change. Don't be afraid of the society. Be what you want to be. Go ahead and show the thumb to the society, the time ahead, the society - both will be yours. Man is the society, humanity is the ideal of the society, man is the only tool to change the society.
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Do not let others or the society judge you. Keep your mind always to your self and don't let them distract you.