In the triumph of science, we are constantly discovering wonderful news in the distant space, in the universe! From incurable diseases to everything related to life and nature, we have confined ourselves to the range of knowledge - but we still do not seem to know the exact edge of a subject close to us. And that is 'our mind'. How much work has been done by everyone from scientists to poets and writers on the interpretation of the mind! As a branch of science, psychology is constantly working tirelessly to explore the depths of the human heart, yet it is not able to know the whole. In the meanwhile, if a problem is created with the mind, then there is no question. Problems with the mind can be called 'mental problems' in simple language. This problem is becoming more and more evident day by day and it is turning into a social disorder. In the interest of the society, for the welfare of the people, therefore, it is necessary to research, interpret and analyze themJust as it is an important question to identify exactly what will be identified as a mental problem, it is also a big task to think about their impact on the society and the steps to be taken to get out of it.
The onset of guilty feelings about having the affair, in the first place, further zaps whatever energy the partner having the affair might still have left. Childhood memories, the experience of growing up, give people a different personality at some point, and in some cases cause mental problems. If we call people with mental problems crazy, it will also identify our mental problems. Mental problems are a very delicate matter and in most cases it is very latent within the human character.
There is a tendency among children, especially school-college children, to try to control others and to show fear. We can identify this display of fear as a kind of psychological problem. Someone may say it's a problem, but why the emotional?Exactly what a person understands to mean a normal environment depends largely on his mind and the mind usually accepts with its intellect the things that are seemingly normal - exceptions we can call the delusion of the mind which is also identified as a problemCan be done.In that case playing normally with classmates or playmates, maintaining a normal relationship with everyone - these are normal mental actions, with the exception of thinking of oneself as the master among the classmates, thinking of oneself as the main among the playmates. So it's a mental problem. This type of fear is seen in children who have a hidden weakness or fear. Surprising to hear, the truth is that they grow up in a kind of strong existential crisis, so they try to explain their position or power to others. But in this process, their inner crises are not solved but increase. The main cause of such problems may be family quarrels or lack of relationship between family members. Another type of child is seen who behaves in this way at the behest of a family member. The thing is that they think that it is their right to despise, neglect or even intimidate anyone, because no one can do anything to them. If there is a problem, his father or brother or someone close to him will come and save him. Their mental problem is that they are omnipotent and do not care about anyone. But no matter how much power a person has, he is limited somewhere or other. In both cases there is a complete digestive tract and it is up to the parents to find a way out of this dilemma. The main task will be to explain the whole thing to them. The message of equality between people can be the main cure. If family members can teach a child that every creature, every object in this world created by the great Creator has equal rights over the earth, that is what will help to get out of this kind of attitude.
On the other hand, children who are victims of such fears also face a variety of psychological problems. Fear of not saying anything to anyone only increases their fear. This problem is more common in low-income children. That's why talking to such children more often, trying to find out what's going on in their minds can be an important way to help them get out of this problem. Frightened children try to keep it a secret, but this can lead to a dramatic change in their behavior. So in that case it is the responsibility of the adults to try to know the matter, to explain to them that even if such children think themselves to be very strong, their strength is not high at all, there is an existential crisis inside them. It is better to try to help them than to be afraid of them. At the same time, both of them will be able to get out of their mental problems.
Another major mental problem of people is to think that all members of a group are the same based on certain characteristics. It is a psychological problem that can affect people of all ages. Such as- ‘Negroes are physically strong’, ‘White-skinned people are intelligent’, ‘Bengalis are lazy and food-loving’. This problem is such a big problem that can create many big crises in our social life. Especially in the context of Bangladesh, if I think about it, such an idea revolves in the minds of many people - ‘People in that region are bad’, ‘People in that region are quarrelsome’ and so on. But that is not the case in all cases. This destroys social harmony. In this case too, the message of equality must be preached to the people. Any simplification should also mean that the person cannot be the criterion for evaluation.
Trying to be like yourself by removing yourself from society or from the party is actually a kind of mental problem. Another major aspect of this is that everyone is excluded, that is, everyone in the society or group is excluded. This problem is often seen in schools, colleges and even universities. Many are responsible for solving this. Only when such problems are visible should the judicious people come forward to solve the problem. Because in any case, if someone is left out of a party or society, it can bring a big danger for both him and the party or society.
The problems discussed can easily spread beyond the individualistic condition of the people to all levels of the society as these problems are becoming more and more evident among our young generation. The revolution of information technology, irrational beliefs among people in spite of the spread of science everywhere, identifying the reasons for this extent of prejudice shows that there is a strong presence of self-centeredness, individualism in people.
After all this, the first question that comes to mind is, "What is the solution?" From individuals to institutional initiatives can be the main medium.
Spending time with children can be a solution to both the tendency to show fear and the panic in a frightened child. Parents should try to find out what their son or daughter does all day in the educational institution. If parents talk to their children about their friends, their college or university environment, teacher behavior, etc., then it is possible to identify the problems in the first place and come up with possible solutions. In addition, college or university committees, various NGOs, non-NGO organizations, the media can be a great tool to solve the problem. Since the current generation is very close to social media, its use can play a significant role in reaching out to them. It will be possible to reduce the problem to a great extent by publicizing the examples, consequences and solutions of such problems.
Many people do not consider it a mental problem to think and make a decision before considering all the members of a group or nation in the same way on the basis of common characteristics and consider it a normal process, so it is a matter of human values and justice to solve itNeed to touch the place.A better way is to promote more examples of exceptions through publicity. For example, socially prevalent people in such areas are quarrelsome and bad natured. People therefore think that when they get acquainted with anyone in such a region, that person will be quarrelsome and badIn that case, publicizing the good people of the area, highlighting their positive traits through social media may be able to change this attitude. So in this case also the medium of communication can play a role.
Another psychological problem was isolation from society or exclusion from a group or society. It is more important to identify the causes before solving this problem. It is almost seen that someone may not be taken to the game or chat and everyone is claiming that the boy or girl cannot play, can't say anything in the chat or even if he says it brings irrelevant things, the manor doesn't know and so on. It is normal to have people of a slightly different nature in society. If everyone praises and encourages such boys and girls, not by separating them, but by identifying the places of their inner strength, the places of their excellence - then it will be seen that they can blend in and not be left out. In the same way, if everyone pays a little attention to the problems of the person who has removed himself from everyone, it will be possible to solve the problems. The media and social media will undoubtedly be able to play an effective role in this regard.
In fact, the means by which all kinds of problems are created by the people of the present age can again provide a way out of the problems. It is now very important to identify exactly how, in what way and where to work, who needs help, what help is needed, to find out the causes and try to solve them.
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