A man's wife's father has died, he forbade his wife to go to his father's house, but when the father died, the wife went to her father's house in disobedience, so the husband told her I divorced you, in this case, whether there will be a divorce!
This is a masala, and this masala is what a Muslim brother wants to know. In other words, there is no chance to blow it up as a story made up by feminists. The harsh reality is that the number of men with such mentality is less than any of us who are pioneers in Islam or far from religion. There are many. In our society, the oppression of men by women is a cruel reality.
Leaving the big head of the fish for the master of the house or the chicken run for the son of the house is an unwritten but common strict rule in our society.
Another example is the abuse of a wife by a husband, when a girl grows up in such an environment, when she sees such abuse of a sister by a mother or a brother by a father, or by a sister of a husband, on the other hand to hear the hollow triumph of women's liberation in the West. There is a shadow of feminist in the fact that the girl has an understanding of religion, which we call religious feminist.
I can't blame these religious feminist sisters too much, because in our society we implement a very small part of religion in our lives in the name of religion.
Allah has given the husband the right to rule over the wife but not the right to oppress her. The husband has not been given the right to forbid her to visit him when the father of the wife dies, nor has Allah given the husband the right to hit the wife for the crime of salt in vegetables.
God prioritizes men because every organization or team has a team leader who will lead that organization forward, the team leader's job is not to oppress others, God has established the family as a team, the team is beautiful That's why he gave a team leader. Because if everyone on any team is drunk, then that team breaks up very easily, isn't there a point to say that more monks waste fermentation? Only the team leader has the responsibility to see the good and bad of the teammates, in the team called Allah Parivar. Husband has been declared as the leader of this team.
This does not mean that Allah has given preference to men over the head of a fish or the run of a chicken. Rather, the Prophet has taught that if there are both boys and girls in the house and the father brings something from outside, then it must be handed over to the daughter first. This is Islam. This is beauty.
This does not mean that the husband has authority over the wife, he has the right to lay hands on the wife, how many examples of fights in marital life do we have among the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who is the main ideologue in Islam or the Companions whom Allaah has instructed us to follow? Were there no marital quarrels? Were there no human faults? Ayesha: How many times did the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) whip or torture her on the day when food came from another Umm al-Muminin's house and threw plates with it ??? What was the Prophet's behavior at that moment? Don't teach us how to behave when the wife is angry?
Islam has taught the husband to do justice to the wife, the father to the daughter, the brother to the sister, and then to the sister. Yes, even after doing justice and good manners, if the wife has wronged you, Islam has taught you how to rule her gently or separate the bed. Or divorce if necessary.
The paganism that exists in our society, which follows the law of religion, gives rise to resentment in the minds of women, which in turn makes her a feminist or a religious feminist. In fact, one should send a sermon to oneself before admonishing people.
