How reasonable is it to talk to your ex after marriage? What should?

There was a mountain in the area of ​​Israel, which they considered very honorable. And they respected it very much. And when deciding on a word, if they had to swear, they would climb on the mountain and swear, and others would accept that word as true. There was a beautiful woman in that city and he had an illicit affair with a young man. The woman started calling him to her house. Then the woman's husband became suspicious, and the husband said, "My suspicion is that someone comes to you in my absence." The woman refused. Then the husband said if you are truthful then swear on the hill that no one has illicit relationship with you. The girl said ok I am ready to swear to climb the hill tomorrow. And the girl secretly told her boyfriend that tomorrow you will be standing at the bottom of the hill with a donkey. My husband and I will come there to climb the mountain, and I will tell my husband, I will have trouble climbing the mountain, I will rent your donkey under that pretext and I will graze on that mountain. You will be there in the guise of a donkey. And ride me on a donkey and climb the mountain with me. When on the 2nd day the husband and wife came out of the house to climb the mountain. And as she walked, she came to the hill, and there stood her donkey in the guise of a donkey. The woman told her husband I had been harassed on the way. Rent this donkey for me, my husband agreed to rent it with the donkey. And the three of them rode their donkeys up the hill. When he reached the place where the people swore, he followed the deceitful woman on a donkey. And she lifted her clothes in such a way that her satar was taken off, and she wore it in such a way that the husband really thought that his wife had gone after the donkey. Then the woman got up quickly and stood at the place of swearing on the hill and said I swear no one saw my satar except you and this donkey. After swearing, the husband believed in his wife. Because the husband thought that the donkey had just seen the satar of his wife that had just opened. At this time it is understood that women often fool their husbands by trickery. But all those women did not know that today she hid her sins temporarily by some trick, so that no one would have any suspicion. But this will not be a secret on the Day of Resurrection. Because Allah knows everything. There is no work hidden from Allah. It may be hidden from the worldly people, but it cannot be hidden from Allah Ta'ala.

According to Islamic law, adultery is punishable by death by stoning. And if both are married, the punishment for both is death by stoning. So that he may suffer the consequences of his evil deeds.

Remember, this punishment can only be given in an Islamic state and the Sharia government of that country will enforce it according to Islamic law. No one at the individual level.

Family and family customs in the face of disaster in the fiery clutches of foreigners. Many are silently enduring this forbidden love of husband or wife by thinking about the future of the society, folklore and children. Many people are getting divorced because they can't bear the pain of it again. Some are choosing the cursed path like suicide again.

Only the provision of the veil of Islam can prevent this catastrophe. Alternatively, all arrangements or prescriptions will be vandalized. The veil is basically a protective wall of women's dignity and honor. Islam has declared the indispensability of the veil as an indispensable duty to protect the intangible resources of women.

Currently, most of the sources of foreigners are from phone conversations or online chatting. Islam has warned men and women about this. Women's voices are also prohibited from talking to strangers unnecessarily, including caution. Even though it is necessary to speak, in verse 32 of Surah Al-Ahzab, Allah forbids speaking in a gentle and attractive manner with other men. So that no man is attracted to talking to women.

Not only women, but in verse 30 of Surah Noor, God first instructed men to restrain their gaze. Again, in verse 31, women are forbidden to restrain their eyesight as well as to reveal their secret beauty. All beauty has been encouraged to be offered to the husband by forbidding the display of beauty in the pot. Because if the husband is fascinated by the beauty of his wife, the peace of the world will increase. On the other hand, if you open the way to seduce others with the beauty of your wife, it will only bring danger.

Islam has instructed all men and women to preserve their character. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) narrated from Hazrat Sahl Ibn Saad (may Allaah be pleased with him) that he said:

In verse 32 of Surah Bani Isra'il, it has been said, "And do not go near adultery." What does it mean not to go near? It is forbidden to approach anything that brings one closer to adultery. It is also forbidden to do things that lead people to commit adultery. If the beginning of adultery is in phone conversation, then in Surah Bani Isra'il, verse 32, phone conversation is also forbidden. Sometimes it is seen that the stranger is frozen with the brother-in-law Islam has also pulled the reins of meeting Debor. Narrated from Hazrat Uqba Ibn Amer (RA), the Prophet (SAW) said, ‘Beware! Do not go to women alone. 'An Ansar Companion said,' O Messenger of Allah! What are your instructions about Debor? The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, ‘Debor is equivalent to death.’ (Bukhari, Muslim).

In his commentary on the hadith, Hafez Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani (may Allah be pleased with him) wrote in Fath al-Bari, "Here, the equivalent of death means haram." And in Islam, the punishment for this is terrible. As a punishment for all this, Rajam and Dorra have been instructed in the hadith. So that no man or woman should do such work.