Do you know about this superpower called “Self love”?
Its like a shield that protects you from haters. It is a state of mind which, once achieved, makes you unstoppable! Seems like a superpower.. No? It is simply accepting and appreciating yourself! No matter what shape or size, no matter what color of skin, no matter what grades in school, no matter what salary package..
NO MATTER WHAT OTHERS THINK!
Accept who you are and where you are in life and appreciate yourself for it!
However.. Attaining this superpower is a process.. A slow one! It’ll take months or years to completely accept yourself.. But slowly and steadily you’ll get there! The process will have its highs and lows.. But remember this slow incremental change that’ll come in your life.. It’ll be here to stay!
But..
HOW TO ATTAIN THIS SUPERPOWER CALLED SELF LOVE?
I have a few pointers for you:
1. Know why you want it! Why is self-love important to you?
2. Once you answer that.. Commit to the journey! Don’t let anything come in the way of you and self-love! Remind yourself every day: “I am strong and I can do this”
3. Don’t put conditions on it. You don’t need to lose weight or put whitening creams on or get a job or a degree or a boyfriend to love yourself..
4. Quit being too hard on yourself. Simply forgive yourself for your mistakes! Remember that you are human.
5. Stop blaming your circumstances and others! No more playing the victim.
6. Let go of toxic habits, people and relationships..
7. Surround yourself with good supportive people.
8. Listen to yourself and take care of your needs.
9. Celebrate your achievements.
Incorporate these little pointers in your life and you’ll get there!