The art of longevity game

Every day in life we ​​make acquaintances that could become potentially valuable. However, in most cases, 90% of these familiars will die a futile death, while 10% will become usable. The reason is that most people hide their intentions with initial goodwill and if you are wise enough you will be able to detect it. There's actually nothing wrong with having short-term people in your life. The plumber, the lady at the grocery store, the next door neighbor, your landlord, or people you meet at random events are short term people because you develop a relationship with them because it is visibly mutually beneficial. In order to pay the lady in the grocery store, you must agree to the store.

Here's something to think about:

Sometimes most relationships that should be a one time affair escalate into something deeper, however it depends on the compatibility of two or more people to make it work. If there is a crazy understanding between two people who go to the store, there is no doubt that they would want to repeat it. This is because building lasting business relationships instead of short-term business relationships would create reciprocity that is generally beneficial, although it depends on understanding and intent.

One of the reasons people don't work is because they have conflicting intentions.

A person who is willing to go overseas cannot build a business with a person who is willing to build and establish in their home country, and it has nothing to do with MR A or B being a bad person.

Intentions don't make people bad, rather it changes your plans for longevity with them.

Some women want rich men for marriage, some want men with whom they can build a life. A man's current state determines which of these two women he will automatically bond with. It doesn't mean any of them are bad, people's intentions change the narrative, but one of the usual patterns of being human is that good people can mask bad intentions with a good attitude, and that's because sometimes bad intentions don't have to be 100% representative of what who they really are. But in life, almost everyone is guilty of the "once beaten, twice shy syndrome" and that's because no one has time to check if people are good or not, the first impression is bad, then it's goodbye to anything. that could potentially be achieved in such relationships.

Compatibility of intentions should be the most important goal in life, especially when it comes to building a business

Sometimes good people make good deals with bad people because the end goal is profit.

While this is good, sometimes we need things in life that go beyond their ephemeral benefits in order to truly succeed. We may like or want people, but they may not be the best for us. Sometimes we are conflicted about the things we really need because they don't excite us at first. I believe that utility creates or establishes strength. The people who are most useful in our lives are the people we are most drawn to, rather than the people whose use is mostly expendable. But that can be completely selfish.

In life we ​​have to let people feel our importance as we want them to feel their importance because it wouldn't make you rich but in the long run maybe. Many people become business partners with people they think they know. At the end of the day, they get screwed.

Why?

When we are completely unable to read them and understand people's intentions over time, then we have hit a snag and completely failed in some aspect of life. There was someone who made me and set me up, but I messed up because I was young and inexperienced. I've been trying to atone for a long time but they feel like I'll never change, but I have, they just haven't given me a chance to prove it.

That doesn't mean I won't try because losing people is something no one should try to do in life. Let's face it, there's nothing like people with the purest of intentions. Sometimes I randomly talk to people to test my longevity instincts, although it's selfish (and I'm trying to stop doing it) it expands my knowledge of the anatomy of the human mind; our needs, wants or even desires.

I am a person with a clear intention. My passion for longevity is insane.

I don't know if it could have consequences

Sometimes it goes overboard, but I try to keep it under control. One thing I realize is that we often meet good people with intentional people. Good people are those who spontaneously have a good heart. But intentional people don't have to be. While you need the former, you generally need the latter to be specific, but it's best to have both packages in one person, which can be quite difficult as life's priorities can make good people inadvertent.

All in all

...it's great to play the longevity game because sometimes we completely underestimate how much we can achieve by playing the game. At the end of the day, it's important to do "you". This means not burdening yourself with potential mistakes, slightly worrying about the consequences of those mistakes as expected but not being petrified by them, savoring the lessons and hoping that life will give you another chance.