Comparison: Nothing will happen
You can't operate in this universe without comparison!! If you are driving, you have to compare. I have to park here. Is a place available or not? What you are doing is compare! You're comparing the distance between two objects, to understand whether to park or not? Without comparison, we cannot operate in this world.
You are growing in life. Because of comparison, you have some 'idols' in your brains related to whatever you want to do, which is pushing you to grow. Otherwise, our animal instincts pull us down. They will take you to the animal level, where you will get indulged in pleasure.
If you want to keep yourself motivated forever, there is only one way you can have complete control over yourself. Whenever we talk about external factors, I can't do it, I will not be able to. It is because you have no control over yourself. That way, control goes out of our hands.
You understand that this is a whole dream world in which you are living, we are living. We have been told since childhood that this is the right thing to do for you and this is not right for you. Means from childhood these things are installed in our memory or thoughts whatever you say. This installation can be done by your parents, relationships, or your own mind has created it, because when you think that your friends are too far from you and you're left behind from them, then you start your self-comparison with them. This is how comparison runs from day to night, from life to death.
You must have understood that we are all reacting on this basis, to prove something to someone. To become something you want and not know what will happen after becoming. Maybe all my problems are solved. I don't know if my dreams will come true. What happens? But nothing happened. Just keep dreaming. As soon as we complete our dream and start looking at the next one, so nothing happens, no matter if you are going to compare yourself with someone or to anyone. NOTHING HAPPENS. Thanks for reading
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