When wife submits to her husband

*What Submission means to a man*

The way religious people talk about submission is as if "marry one slave and keep her there...while you go about your normal business and enjoy".

The way feminist also stand against or react to submission...you will think it's an act of servanthood imposed on a woman by God and must be lifted with immediate effect. So I wonder what does submission really means to a man...

Some says "not to argue with him and just always be in support of whatever he says; that's the one way peace can rain in the house

Some argues that " Submission is a way men put women into bondage in marriage silencing her God given abilities and making her useless to herself and her world.

Some says,submission is a weapon in women's hand to control her man etc

To submit to a man means you are giving yourself to do his will.

To reverence him is to treat him like your lord,with all regard,in awe of him,with all respect etc

To submit to him is to

1. Reverence him

2. Obey Him

3. Not questioning his authority in awkward manner

4. Not comparing him with Sis Loveth husband

What submission is not

1. Submission is not always saying "yes sir or yes dear .... Without saying your view about a thing... all the time.

2. Submission doesn't mean you shouldn't partner with your husband or Influence his life in a positive way...

In addition to what submission is not..... It doesn't mean women do not possess required knowledge about a particular situation. In contrast, submission means keeping low your ego when you're to demonstrate it.

Me: Love comes before submission.

It doesn't mean you cant talk after your husband has spoken, but to reason things out amicably.

Any marriage that says submission is always saying "yes sir" then they are not married but just slave and master relationship.