When a man fails to understand his woman.
Sometimes you wonder why your woman will pretend to be fine when deep within you feel there is something wrong. You ask what is wrong with her and the answer you get is, "I am fine", yet she is not fine and this makes you go crazy sometimes. The truth is most ladies keep their feelings to themselves when their partner finds it difficult to understand them.
As emotional beings, they love to express how they feel and but a lot of times these expressions don't make sense to their man who is logical and pays little or no attention to their feelings.
Such a man forces the woman to become mute, unhappy, sad and depressed sometimes. Then when they can't hold it any longer, some resort to shedding tears. They are sad because the man who used to be the reason they smiled has changed. He no longer listens to understand. They feel all alone, they feel they have lost a friend dear to them.
Instead of their men to hug them, wipe their tears, sit down with them, hold hands and just say "I am here for you, tell me everything, I am here to listen to you", these men rather shouted at them, called them immature and asked them to grow up. This makes them cry even the more.
You not understanding her feelings break her down but the worse is you shouting at her in addition; this crushes and breaks her into tiny bits, unfixable pieces. This action has the power to kill the warm loving feeling she has for you and replace it with fear. She gets scared each time you are around or close. Your hello becomes her least-liked and your goodbye becomes music to her ears.
She sometimes goes down memory lane; she misses the days when you will make ears to listen to her long stories which may not make sense. She misses the days when her smiles were real and not like now when she has to fake it just to say "I am fine".
Love, they say is like the wind, you can't see it but you can feel it. As soon as you notice a change in her feelings or action, it means something is wrong. When you listen to understand her feelings, then she feels loved and valued.
If you are married to someone and you love them, you need to know that love means: Live Once Value Everything. Your marriage to them is once. Value everything in the relationship and give it the needed attention it deserves. Never ignore the one you love or take them for granted.
Men should always remember their role in their marriage. Husband means He Understands Situations Better And Never Disappears; don't wait till your woman is really fed up. When that happens "sorry" won't mean a thing to her.
In conclusion "So each husband should love his wife as much as he loves himself, and each wife should respect her husband" - Ephesians 5:33 (CEV).To the wise proverbially we speak!LET LOVE REFINE YOU!❤️