Every time I open Facebook, I find a very large number of "engaged" posts, so for starters, may God bless everyone and may God complete your joy
But since it is the duty of every human to always remind his brother of what pleases God.. and since you have remained as many as God willed, I would like to remind you of how many natural points of your joy you can overlook ^^
- adhere to the rules of engagement..
• Controls are a basis in this stage because your fiancé is no matter what You loved him, trusted him, the son of people, of good morals and religion, respected..etc.
He will prefer a stranger to you that which is not permissible for the stranger is not permissible for him, even peace by hand until the contract is completed - the book wrote -
• Speech within limits and within the limits of what is important.
• You cannot express your feelings, even if it is okay. I mean, you are not able to conceal your feelings. Write them down in a nice note. Write in them all the things you feel about it, and when you are in a contract, do it to your husbands, and you are left. You killed two birds with one stone.. You are angry, our Lord, and the feelings are said at the right time.
• And .. No, this is very frankly, I will put the rules of engagement in the comments for those who want it better.
- Do not neglect your friends as the majority do, because you got engaged.. and if you fell short against your friends against you, let them know and they will excuse you, but do not marginalize their presence from your life just because you are saved. The rest of you are "engaged"
- Do not worry too much.. and do not get attached to me because the name of the "engagement" came.
- Your fiancé is not your father and is not obligated to give you a new iPhone, no line, he does not charge a package, you do not have personal expenses, he does not require you to wear clothes on Eid, nor do all the things that one keeps seeing.
Your fiancé's word does not match your father's word! It is okay for your father to agree to a need, whatever it may be, as long as there is no haram, no fault, and you do not anger God.
- Your fiancé is not obligated to give you gifts as so-and-so went to your aunt's daughter, and when he came to your cousin, he is not obligated to give you gifts in the first place! When he brings you any gift, whether on Eid or any occasion, it is a gift from him, and it is not imposed on him, so you thank him, praise our Lord, and please and do not wait for anyone, because if this matter remains in you, and my preference is to look to others, you will not be satisfied with your life and you will live in sluggishness always and only.
- And we say again, third, and tenth. Do not neglect your friends and marginalize them from your life just because you got engaged and a new person entered your life, as many work - and this happened to me personally - and when you failed, apologize and let them know that this is their right over you ^^
- Engagement in itself is not an "accomplishment", the real achievement that you know You prove to what pleases God this period and choose the right one, so you don't see us talking about someone, by God, because our bitterness is cracking from these childish behaviors.. and you have killed